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So, I just started working this new job and there is this guy I think is pretty dope. He's cute, funny and kinda weird like me. We get along and talk but I know that he just sees me as a friend. I know that I'm not his type because honestly I'm not anyone's type. I don't really have any ugly features but I'm not pretty. I mean I've tried to wear a little make up now and then but it never really makes a difference in the way I look. And in order for me to actually have any results that I might actually like I'd have to basically change my whole appearance. Which is not something I want to do. When someone steps to me I want them to do it because they see me as I am. I don't wear make up mostly because I'm hella lazy (I can't do a wing tip to save my life) I don't wanna go through all that shit that I be seeing girls go through with all the concealer, foundation eye liner and whatever else they be using, but also because I don't wanna hide or change myself to be with someone. Like I said I've realized that I'm not really anyone's type. And what I mean by that is that I've always been the best friend thats a girl and the people that do become interested in me are just plain weirdos. Some would say that I'm being picky but I don't think I am. Which brings me back to the guy I work with. I've always been attracted to guys are sort of out my league. Well muscled and tall and all that jazz. Imagine that with a small chubby girl with small eyes and a wide nose and u would say bad combo too. A lot of people would say I'm being too hard in myself but I'm just being a realist and speaking from experience. Men tend to look in the other direction when it come to me, and i don't know why. because I've seen women who are fatter than me or even uglier than me who significant others. So why is it so hard for me to want to be with someone and for them to want to be with me in return. Perhaps my standards are too high I don't know. Anyway my question is what do u guys think I should do about the work cutie?

I came across a really offense prank video recently. The guy in the video decided to prank his girlfriend by calling her ugly. She started crying & responded by saying, "well y would u even want to be together with me if you don't find me attractive?" He responded by saying, "I've always dated girls for personality, I have unfortunately never gotten the chance to date anyone who is hot", but of course this was all a lie for the prank, in reality he does think of her as the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, and is in fact the very reason he asked her out from the beginning. He concluded the video by saying this to her in an attempt to make her feel better (she was still pretty mad at him tho)
Now of course the video got a lot of backlash in the comments, saying that he had gone way too far even if it all wasn't true. I am also quite offended, but for a much different reason. When she said "y r u even with me if you don't find me attractive" I don't think she realized that this statement basically claims that anyone who is ugly, or even just average looking in real life, has no chance in getting a relationship. I know for fact that Im ugly. This isn't just a matter of bad self esteem anymore, I legitimately look like an fn swamp-thing/drunken zombie compared to the average girl of today. The only possible way that I could ever get a boyfriend, is if he loved girls for personality only. According to this video & current media ingeneral, the idea of finding an individual appealing, solely based on what's inside just doesn't happen. Sorry to be hypocritical, but I contribute to this possible stereotype, but most likely inevitable part of being human. I have only ever had a crush on a cute boy. Never have I had a crush on someone with average appearance, yet somehow I feel entitled to attention from somebody gorgious, with no more then an average complection myself. It just doesn't work. Pls add to the poll, or comment below about ur thoughts. Thanks.