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Why hasn't he texted me? Is he blowing me off? Went to meet a guy 2 days ago next state up. We had a great time. We were alone twice, and the sexual tension was sky high but he didn't do anything... not even kiss. He always playfully nudged me. He bought my food twice and then he cooked for me the last night I was there. He kept making future plans that he was going to come to my city and wanted me to show him different things. I kept asking him if he's sure? He said he is a man of his word. He just has to finish his business start up first. He does follow his word 90% of the time. After I left, he texted me he had a good time and hopefully he will come out to me soon because he really wants to get to know me and really likes me. I replied I had a great time too and if he does come let me know, or if he wants me to come out again i'll be happy to do that as well. Next day, he texted me hoping I got home safe. I said yes and asked him if he got my other text. He said he just got it, his phone was acting weird. Then he said let me get back to your text after im not busy working. I said okay. He texted me that night that he was exhausted and he will get back to me tomorrow again. I said ok. He responded mid day again saying he finally got a break and it's going to be crazy working the next two days before he drives to the mojave desert Thursday morning. He said he's glad I got sleep and hope im having a good day and he can't wait to come up there soon. I replied for him to make sure he eats and sleep. I put an inside joke of ours in and then i said i'll believe you will be out here when I see it. I told him i'll talk to him after his trip or for him to text me after he comes back. He hasn't texted me since then. It's been 2 days now. Was "see you soon" a nice way of saying nice meeting you but im not interested? I'm hoping im just blowing it out of proportion but he's the one putting in all the effort. I'm just laying back to see what happens. Why make promises if you're not interested?

Went to meet a guy 2 days ago next state up. We had a great time. We were alone twice, and the sexual tension was sky high but he didn't do anything... not even kiss. He always playfully nudged me. He bought my food twice and then he cooked for me the last night I was there. He kept making future plans that he was going to come to my city and wanted me to show him different things. I kept asking him if he's sure? He said he is a man of his word. He just has to finish his business start up first. He does follow his word 90% of the time. After I left, he texted me he had a good time and hopefully he will come out to me soon because he really wants to get to know me and really likes me. I replied I had a great time too and if he does come let me know, or if he wants me to come out again i'll be happy to do that as well. Next day, he texted me hoping I got home safe. I said yes and asked him if he got my other text. He said he just got it, his phone was acting weird. Then he said let me get back to your text after im not busy working. :) I said okay. He texted me that night that he was exhausted and he will get back to me tomorrow again. I said ok. He responded mid day again saying he finally got a break and it's going to be crazy working the next two days before he drives to the mojave desert Thursday morning. He said he's glad I got sleep and hope im having a good day and he can't wait to come up there soon. I replied for him to make sure he eats and sleep. I put an inside joke of ours in and then i said i'll believe you will be out here when I see it. :p I told him i'll talk to him after his trip or for him to text me after he comes back. He hasn't texted me since then. It's been 2 days now. Was "see you soon" a nice way of saying nice meeting you but im not interested? I'm hoping im just blowing it out of proportion but he's the one putting in all the effort. I'm just laying back to see what happens. Why not respond now?