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I was watching a soap opera from the old days. Things were different back then. An unfaithful husband wasn't treated the same as a cheating wife. Nowadays cheaters of both genders get called out for their actions in my area, equally.

Here is what I saw:
A widow kept bringing flowers on her husband's grave. Prior to his death, he was trying to run off with her friend (whom had a child in her marriage too), abandoning his son and wife. Both of the lovers died in an auto accident. Meanwhile her and people all gather in his grave, bringing flowers and/or roses, the unfaithful wife's reputation gets tainted and she gets bad-mouthing her, not a single flower on hers.

Seriously.. all that anger and resentment towards the woman and not the husband whom made the choice to cheat, got another woman pregnant before and was about to abandon his son and wife!!! At least the unfaithful wife was scorned for trying to abandon her daugher and husband. Why not the man too?

Does an unfaithful husband like that even deserves flowers on his grave?

Hello, I
would like to know your opinion on one minor problem. My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. (Yes, a week before Valentine's Day!). In fact, he broke up with me. However, I do not understand the reason... You know, the relationship was very nice for me, and I'm afraid I won't have a match like that anymore. To describe it to you, this guy fought for me for 3 months until we finally got together. I think it was all honest on his part that he liked me. The strangest thing is that we are from one city, and when we were were we did the same activities. We trained together at the same sport club, but I don't remember him, only he remembers me. However, after 10 years, we met again and even found that we were studying the same thing and had the same ambitions. He was my best friend, support, lover and we just complemented each other. After half a year of relationship, he told me from day to day that he didn't want a relationship. He told me that he wanted to be alone, to focus on himself. I'm sure he doesn't have anyone else because we were together every day and it was always great until that day. It was a huge shock to me because the day before he called me from work saying that he missed me and that he loved me. I don't know what happened. It hurts me and I don't want it to end like this because it was too muchIt hurts me and I don't want it to end like this because it was too perfect.. He told me that there was no mistake in me, that he still liked me, but that he didn't know how to change his feelings. I would like to ask you what would you do in my place? Will I start to miss him? I don't want this to be our end.