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Me n my girlfriend spend lots of time together. We fight more than make love. I understand why she gets frustrated but I don’t think she needs to behave like this. I suffer from ADD and other mental health issues. It’s a problem at work and school. So I can understand her frustration to a certain extent. For example, I need things explained to 3 times and she knows that. Whenever she asks me to do something and I don’t understand. She gets angry and tells me “you can’t figure out anything. What the point in a useless man?”. I tell her I don’t like her talking to me like that and we end up not talking for a day or 2.

Last night night we were having good day. I took her out to eat and relaxed with wine in the hot sun after. Then the day was ruined very quickly. Again, I failed to follow her instructions correctly. She got mad and said “you never listen, this why I don’t feel sexually attracted to you, you’re selfish”. I’m used to hearing stuff like this, but it hurts more coming from someone who’s supposed to love me!

Most days together starts off happy talking about a future together, getting married etc. Then the moment I slip up it’s all hell breaks loose. On the flip side she does a lot for me without me asking. She even said she cut male friends out of her life for this relationship. Is this worth staying?

My girlfriend knows how much I hate that she has male friends. I’ve told her how much it bothers me because these guys are just trying to hook up with her. Her response is “I’m so hot everyone wants me”. We’ve gotten into arguments about it in the past, but I let it go.

Last week she mentioned one of her guy friends is coming into town. And that she’s going to meet up with him. I lost my temper and accused her of cheating. We ended up in a huge argument but met up the next day like nothing happened. My girlfriend does do a lot for me but I’m still very uncomfortable with her male friends. Also, I haven’t seen any solid evidence that she’s cheating.

I’m so hung up on this girl that the thought of her with another man makes me go crazy. I know if we break up I’ll need mental therapy.

I’ve been in a 7 month relationship with my girlfriend Nivea. Me & Nivea have a good relationship. Nivea cooks for me, does my laundry, and spends money on me. When we don’t see each other for a couple days she calls me on her way to work and FaceTimes me for an hour before bed. I’ve never had a relationship like this. She even gave me a key to her home and told her dad about me.

I really like Nivea but I don’t like that most of her friends are guys. Her male bestie Mark lives a 5 min walk from her. She use to text Mark a lot until he got a girlfriend. She has her text messages on open screen. So I can see everything, but I’ve never seen anything suspicious.

One night me & Nivea were hanging with her friends. Gossip started about their friend Julio. They were saying Julio is secretly gay. Nivea explained why he’s gay. She talked about how she was sleeping over at his house years ago & Julio cuddled a gay guy instead of her.

Her exact words...”can you believe he has a beautiful woman laying in his bed and he’d rather cuddle a gay guy on his couch?”.

I got really upset and mentioned it the next day. Her response was “I know I’m hot and can have any guy I want. So obviously he’s gay”. I also mentioned I don’t like her friends with so many guys. She said she’s not attracted to them and I should trust.

I’ve nearly fallen in love with Nivea but I keep remembering her male friends. Am I an idiot for staying with her?