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Search Results: paying for the first date
He didn’t pay for first “date”?
So we never really established if it was a date or not. But we agreed to go to a food place and we paid separately. He held the door open for me and he was nice. But I’m not sure what it meant if he didn’t pay. Don’t get...
Anonymous
(25-29) What are your first thoughts on this girl?
I have been talking to the first girl for about 3 weeks and we went on one date. She likes to ask me many questions , she likes to be dominant by suggesting what to have for lunch and ended up paying. She is about as tall...
Anonymous
(36-45) Red Flags From My Last Relationship, Part Two
This is a late follow up to the my take I posted above. Another user, @errorgoodnameunfound inspired me to make another. My last relationship ended about 6 months ago. Now that I've healed a lot better, I revisited things...
1truekhaleesi
Editor Age: 29 My boyfriend tried hard to impress his ex and not me, why is that?
I mean, I already asked him. And he said I shouldn't be asking for gifts because I wanted to know why his ex got flowers from him all the time. I've never received flowers, not even on my birthday. We've been together for...
Anonymous
(36-45) First date No nos
First dates sound intimidating. After all, it’s a make or break. They can either make your next relationship or break the connection on the get go. Let’s get down and dirty to the no nos of the first meeting (not in...
Why families are the worst to make business with?
A very long story to tell, Buy unfortunately it doesn’t let me write the whole deal here, So just gonna say I let my older sister borrow money, And we don’t get along well. But anyways I still let her borrow $6,600 for a...
Leomar18
Xper 4 Age: 41 Is this new guy being kind of cheap or is it just me?
So I have been dating a guy from my friend circle for two weeks ish. We have gone out 4 times now. First date we went out for drinks I had two beers and offered to pay he refused. Second date he asked me to go to a movie....
Anonymous
(36-45) 
Do all guys “court” girls differently? And does the way he “courts” you determine your worth and how he feels about you or views you?
Like a guy can court you by picking you up from work when you work late, going half on the bill or maybe paying the bill for dates while another guy might invite you to his house to get to know you. He may not pick you up...
Sienna__
Xper 4 Age: 26 I love hard but I dont fall easily. How will I ever love a guy if I don't care about new guys?
I think MY first love was stuck on HIS first love. When we met he was perfect. He looked at me like he loved me and that never changed. But once I got to know him I realized how broken hearted he still was and I wanted to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls Should Pay The Bill On The First Date!
Men and Women Are Equal A surprisingly large amount of people still think a guy should pay, especially girls. This is so crazy and hypocritical. Most people think men and women are equal (rightfully so) yet they still...
LonelyGuy87
Xper 5 Age: 25 I'm falling for her, how do I stop?
The girl Im dating is my "arch-nemisis' ex from school, and she's only dating me to make him jealous so hell take her back. I was only dating her to make him mad and because she's my only option, and to have sex with her...
Leviathan_Charmer
Xper 5 Age: 25 Am I overreacting?
Me and this girl who I met on Tinder have only just finished our 2nd date yesterday and I am already questioning us. After I go home from both dates, I spend a lot of time wondering if she liked me. Because she sends...
Anonymous
(30-35) How much of a turn off would being asked to go Dutch on the first date be?
For those who don't know, going Dutch is the practice of a couple splitting the bill when dating. Personally I see this as not being a Chesapeake as many would likely see it, but more a test of integrity. By going Dutch...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should a man pay on the first date or split the bill?
I’d say well if you don’t know the person and since it is a first date why not split it? Also here’s a video and I disagree with Steve 100% , like if I don’t know you why should I pay for you, and invest money and time...
massb
Xper 7 Age: 34 Made a girl pay for herself on our first date?
So there was this girl at uni who I've always kinda had a thing for and I've noticed her checking me out occasionally. Recently approached her and asked her out for a meal. Before our date made it clear through msgs that...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is Dating Possible for Me?
I want to date a girl. My first two issues are that I'm Shy and that I feel like girls really don't want to be bothered by them... I'm just another a*****e trying to get in their pants in this world. Lets say I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do guys usually cover up their feelings they have about a girl that makes them feel insecure about themselves?
So I started seeing this guy I ghosted two years prior, at the time I was interested in someone else and we seemed to just hit it off as friends. The first day we hung out (for the first time in two years) he laid it on...
xxMayhem00
Xper 4 Age: 30 Guys: On a first date, do you prefer to pay or split the check?
When you're on a first date with a girl, do you prefer to pay for the whole check or do you prefer it if she pays her half? I hear guys complaining all the time about having to pay for women on dates, but they still seem...
Anonymous
(30-35) First dates and paying?
What do you think? I just came back from a date (it went well!) And I got the opportunity to flabbergast my date because I asked if we could split the bill, we went to a steakhouse. For me, first dates means getting to...
Puppylover_129
Explorer Age: 27 