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So about a month ago this girl joined my social group. She just turned 25 and I am 33. We hit it off almost right away and have been spending a lot of time together. If it matters, she joked that I'm not the oldest guy she's dated, and she is very mature, so it make sense she prefers older guys. I definitively would not have been able to handle a woman like her when I was 25.

We've only gone out on a true date just the two of us twice, but that's just because we see each other so much I didn't want to rush anything. For example, this past Friday we stayed out as a group until midnight, just she and I went on a date on Saturday and were out until 3am, then Sunday and Monday we were out until midnight starting out as a group but just us two toward the end. 4 nights in one week out past midnight seems like enough so I didn't schedule more.

She has also been texting me almost every morning and often again in the evening or before bed. She's never used the word love, but she says how handsome and amazing I am and how she's glad to have met me and she's been craving a relationship with mature man like me.

I've never really made it past 2-3 dates with a woman, one or both of us just lose interest. So this is the first time I've seen a woman more than a couple times. We haven't even known each other for a month and we've probably seen each other 12-15 times. I really like her too, and we've talk a lot about future goals and they're virtually identical. Just new territory to me so I'm not sure if I should keep things casual now regardless of how interested she seems, or if I need to step up and be more bold so she knows I really like her too.

I've always been one to advocate for body positivity, but am I really being a hypocrite for wanting a well endowed man?

So let me give a quick background on this subject.

My ex-boyfriend of 6 months was genuinely one of the best men I've ever known. He had a smile that could stop you right in your tracks. A face legit sculpted by the gods. A personality to die for. He is an incredible guy. Not to sound pretentious. Like as if I'm rubbing him In y'alls face. I'm just trying to help u visualize for the sake of my question. His body was perfection. I've never been picky when it came to looking for a guy. As long as we click and get along well that's all that matters.

I never saw a problem with his size till after we broke up. I was just thinking of all the good times we had, while simultaneously eating my feelings away, when I realized something. I never truly got off while we were together. I always came but on my own accord. Dont get me wrong he was a very tinder lover. Alwayse took my needs into consideration. Always pushed me to try new things in, and out, of bed. But his dick never ACTUALLY satisfied me. Granted he was amazing at everything else, just not when it came to using his dick. He was about 5' inches when hard.

So is that me judging him, or simply having a preference. If the relationship hadn't ended I dont think I ever would have said anything. But now that it's over I feel like it's ok to talk about.

Were still best friends. Were still attached at the hip. Were still there for eachother. But I dont feel right keeping it to myself.

Please reframe from leaving hate on this question. Its something that I've wondered about for a while now, and am simply wanting an answer.

Thanks in advance😊

It amazes me when one of these geniuses wants to try to argue. Their tactics wouldn't fool my 7yo.

1 Attack with all the rage in your soul to make you stop saying the truth.
2 Pick a talking point and hold onto it like grim death.
3 Accuse you of doing the things they are.
4 Spew FOX news propaganda until you need to go to bed.

I do feel really bad for them because somewhere, in their adorable little minds, they really think that what they are typing is going to fool people reading it.

Please give me some insight here GaG community, my college degree and minor in psychology didn't prepare me for this level of "intellect"... at least long ago, the racists/sexists were man enough to own up to it... now they're just pathetic cowards failing at being clever or relevant. BRING ON THE BUTTHURT ANONS!!!