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I been bored & unhappy, I meet boyfriend only 1x or 2x month. He takes 2-3wks to meet, never meet weekly. I’m at point very lonley, I don’t feel excited meet, it got boring go on dates we don’t move foward, I don’t meet his family, I don’t hav holidays together, I don’t attend his family events, no errands together, I’m alone. I don’t want stupid dates forever what is the point? He never will live with me, I live in a studio & hell be forever with parents. No photos together nothing. He never visit me weekdays at night after work. I never felt so lonley in my life. I can’t talk freely to him as I’m just rejected. I don’t understand how 1 date a month is relationship when I see girls daily with boyfriend & spend all holidays events together. I don’t understand how girls even find guys like that , wouldn’t they get tired run away? To be 24/7 with girl? I don’t even get how people marry. 😓 I told him It’s boring meet 1x a month, I don’t want meet next week, after waiting so long whats the point, and he don’t reply back. It’s Mother’s Day Sunday why I can’t be with him Mother’s Day with our families together? 😓

We’ve been together for about 4.5 months. Don’t get me wrong, I’m really happy in our relationship but there are a few caveats. When I talk to him I notice a few things: 1. I ask him questions that are never being reciprocated, 2. When I talk about something, he listens to me, but then he finds a way of talking about himself, 3. He never asks me questions. We will sit in the car, in non-awkward silence, and he doesn’t make an effort to talk to me about anything, or ask me anything. I love him, truly. Sometimes he could be a bit self-absorbed when we have conversations, I don’t think he realizes it. We don’t live together but throughout the day we text often. The texts are usually about him and his day. When we wake up I’ll ask “how did you sleep” and he will say “I slept pretty good...” and then that will be it. Or I’ll be like “I’m going to go get ready for x” and he be like “I am doing hw, it’s boring.” I don't know those are bad examples. Do guys tend to do this? I’m not going to break up with him because the good qualities outweigh the bad, and I believe I can communicate with him. Am I being overly sensitive? Selfish? How do I talk to him about this?