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2 years ago I gave an acquaintance my phone number, which is something I already hate doing. For most calls he would either end the phone call after a few minutes to "see why 'she' is calling" or talk with people off the phone.

Important Side Note: He told me about a planned group outing with our mutuals and "someone else." I found out through social media that "someone else" was a girl I've seen around but never really spoke to. I suspect that "she" is the person he would cut our phone calls short to talk to. I thought it was really weird of him to hide that she was on the trip, especially since I recognized her; I literally don't care who he dates because I was only platonically interested in him at best. This incident, however, made me feel like being his friend was not a good idea.

One day, I told him that he should delete my number if he calls me again and exhibits poor phone etiquette. Like clockwork, the next time he called, he cut the call short because he couldn't understand why "she" was calling him. I told him to never call me again and promptly stopped answering calls and texts.

As time went on, he and "she" developed a relationship that he posted about. "She" recently had his baby. I was hanging out with some mutuals and he came around. I acknowledged him but cut my time short because I didn't want to spoil the mood. Since then he has been watching my social media stories, DMing me, and calling me. I have not responded.

A part of me feels bad for my lack of communication with him, but I also don't understand WHY he's trying to talk to me. A part of me wants to ask him why he's trying so hard to engage me when he should be tending to his girlfriend and his baby, and a part of me wonders if he's just trying to work on being friends. I personally do not trust this man and would rather he would accept that I told him to leave me alone 2 years ago than pursue a friendship.

WDYT?

GIRL 1: Average face (7/10), shorty (5’0 and 163 lbs), Asian, B cup boobs, medium butt, small lips, dark hair and eyes, a homebody but also an ambivert (easy going and has a bunch of friends, hangout with her friends a few times a month), virgin so body count is ZERO, a bit selective/choosy as a person in general, never been in a relationship, but has handsome and pretty friends in the group, has a job nine to five

GIRL 2: Slightly above average (8.5/10), average height (5’5), obese (253 lbs), Asian x Middle eastern, C cup boobs, medium lips, downward triangle butt, dyed hair (light brown), dark eyes, extrovert, goes out a lot (gets depressed if not), virgin (saving for marriage), dated over 15 people, a simp, has a job nine to five

GIRL 3: Attractive (9/10), tall (5’8), not fat (121 lbs), Asian x White, A cup boobs, small lips, flat ass, dyed hair (dark brown), dark eyes, introvert, bad at socializing and conversing but once she left the house; all eyes on her; neck turner, virgin (saving for marriage), dated over 6 people, doesn’t care about guys’ looks as long as they have a car, she’s slightly insecure, stuck up, slow and boring, has a job nine to five

During my internship I was assigned to a Group of students. Since I’m not pretty and most of them were male I was pretty much ignored the entire time while everyone talked normally to the hot girls.

There was only one handsome guy who paid me attention and tried to be nice and tried to find ways to talk to me alone. He talked a lot about himself, his family and his interests and career prospects and I felt like he tried to impress me.

Now I’m wondering why would the hottest guy of the group be the only one who approached me and tried to get to know me while all the others tried to get with the hot girls. He seemed genuinely nice but I’m afraid he considered me just an easy target since he could easily Date Models or did he just pity me because no one paid me attention?