Why did he react like that?

Question

I've been talking to this guy since lasted year. He doesn't want a relationship I understood we say hi when we see each other and he invites me out with his friend group I get along well with everyone and became friends with them. He does invite me to hang out outside of his friends group but everytime I ask him, y he's doing all this and if he wants a relationship he says no but gets upset when I talk to other people, he ran into me when I was on a date once and he looked incredibly hurt I asked him about it later abd he said I was for the streets cause its barely 2 months since we started hanging out and I'm going out with other people and if we dated I'd cheat on him. I don't know what it was all for but it really hurt my feelings. He hasn't apologised its been 4 months I ignore him, but he wpnt stop bothering me, he said I motivate him so I've been simply ignoring his messages and calls, my friends and family are the same way always around me when they need an ear or pep talk. I just ignore him cayse he had no right to say that, I'm just glad we didn't get sexually involved or anything I walk away with my purity.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Yo that's really messed up what he did to you. Some guys just wanna keep a girl around as an option without committing, then get mad when she moves on. And for him to say you'd cheat after he told you he didn't want anything serious? That's clown behavior. He was just hurt his ego took an L cause you found someone else.

I say good for you for ignoring him and doing you. Dude doesn't deserve any more of your time or energy. You didn't do anything wrong - he's the one who said he just wanted to be friends, so you went and lived your life. His feelings changed but that ain't your problem.

Keep holding your head high sis. You seem like a real catch - don't settle for any dude who can't appreciate you fully. His actions showed where you stood, so believe him. Block his number if you gotta and holler at them real ones who'll treat you right! You deserve way better than some wishy-washy dude.

RedInnocent68 · Accepted Answer

He’s playing a complicated game in his own mind, but clearly likes you (ok, more like is obsessed with you). He can’t understand why you don’t see it and haven’t thrown yourself at him, but also has esteem issues and doesn’t believe he will ever be able to satisfy you. If you want him, you can easily have him, but you’ll be unpacking and working out his issues for years…