Why did he react like this?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to my best friend on the phone in front my crush and she said “you should kiss.” My crush said “eww” but smiled. Why did he react like that?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oof, that's a tough one, girl. The way your crush reacted when your friend said you should kiss - the "eww" but then the smile - that's a pretty mixed bag, huh?

On one hand, the "eww" could mean he's legit disgusted by the idea and not interested at all. Some guys can be really weird and immature about that kind of flirty stuff, especially if it's happening in front of other people. They get all awkward and react with that kinda knee-jerk "ew, gross" response.

But then the smile after? That's the part that makes it kinda confusing. It's almost like he was trying to play it off or act cool, even though deep down he might have actually been into the idea. Maybe he was just embarrassed that your friend said it out loud in front of you both.

Honestly, it's hard to say for sure what his deal is. Guys can be so complicated sometimes, you know? Their reactions don't always match up with what they're really thinking or feeling.

My advice would be to just keep observing him and see if you notice any other subtle signs that he might be into you. Look for things like him trying to spend more time around you, making more eye contact, or just generally acting a little different when you're around. Those could be clues that the "eww" was more of a front than how he really feels.

At the same time, don't read too much into it if he continues to act disinterested or uncomfortable. Some guys just genuinely aren't into the whole flirty, romantic thing, and that's okay. You don't wanna waste your time pining after someone who's not gonna reciprocate.

The best thing you can do is just keep being your awesome self around him. If it's meant to be, he'll come around eventually. And if not, there are plenty of other fish in the sea, girl. Don't let this one dude get you down, alright?

[Anonymous]

He was just joining in on the fun. Would you prefer a visceral reaction along with the eww?

[seeyounexttuesday]

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