Why he acted like this?

[Anonymous]

I been with my boyfriend for 3 years my wages get paid into his bank but if I don't pay then into his bank he threatened to kick me out and start arguing with me i donit see any if my wag because he spend it am I wrong for not wanting to go it any more

[Lliam]

He said if you don't pay him he will kick you out? Seriously? That goes to show how much he values you.
Tell him to pay his wages into your account from now on or you'll kick him out. I can only imagine how the abusive fuck would react to that.

Don't you have a mutual bank account?

I would recommend waiting until he is gone and then moving all your stuff out. Take any mutual furniture and anything else that your wages may have contributed to buying.
Leave him high and dry. Cut all ties and never have contact with him again.

[Fireguy17]

That is just wrong.
It sounds like he is using you for your money, kind of like a pimp.
That is too controlling.
I feel it would be in your best interest to move on and be in control of your life.
Why be with a person who treats you like that?
Kick his sorry ass to the curb and move on.

[boggboss]

Why is this even a thing do u not have friends or family u could stay with do u not see how toxic and abusive this is

[dudeinohio]

You need to have your money go into YUUR account! You also need to. leave him immediately! You are being abused. No one threatens and forces you to give them all your money, unless they are an abusive control. freak.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You keep your money, he keeps his, then you split bills. Time for you to move out.

[lamuñekita]

he’s using you for money