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I have never particularly loved the way I look but I recently lost 28 pounds (yes if you add that to my current weight I was kind of 'large' before) That being said, I was never actually considered 'fat'. This year I've encountered the issue of having LOTS of friends who weigh less than 100 lbs. Despite my weight loss and the fact that I go to the gym almost daily and run a lot, I've had a friend who says she weighs only 105 pounds call me fat every day. She says she's kidding but it kind of stings. My BMI says I'm in the healthy range and I have only a little fat on my stomach and really muscular legs. I joined sports for next year and I'm trying really hard to lose weight. For a while I actually took it too far and got kind of sick from not eating anything. I'm asking this question to everybody but I'm really interested in guys answers because I want to know their opinion. I think girls usually think they should weigh less than 125 pounds and a lot of girls are probably going to tell me I'm fat and need to lose 10-20 lbs. but I can't really guess what guys will say. I'm scared for it, but I'm just really curious too. I guess my stomach isn't muscular but it's not flabby. Also, my waist is higher and my ribs are larger than most of my friends. It makes me look a bit bigger but if you feel my side it's not really fat but instead ribs. Also, if it helps at all I'm a size 4 and a small for most clothes. Thank you for all the opinions.

So I've done this because I had a serious illness that caused me to gain 17 pounds in my twenties due to meds which is a lot on my frame. I was a size 2 prior to steroids, working out and. Orhing about me. Had changed other than that weight on my small frame.

I went up to a size 8 but couldn't help it because I couldn't workout and the meds made me gain weight.

People treated me differently, thought I was a loser (if they didn't know I had a medical condition), even my clients treated me differently.

I had an autoimmune disorder and was lucky enough to find a drug that was $5k a shot every 6 weeks that cured me.

I behan running marsthons again and got raise after raise for losing 22 pounds making me a size 0. Once I was healthy to run the weight fell off and I actuallly had to eat a lot everyday to keep healthy once I was off prednisone for good.

But then sometimes I get asked for a date by guys online, irl or through connections. My first instinct is to wear an outfit that doesn't show my banging body. I don't want him to think she's hot let's go.

I've honestly lost some dates this way and am proud of it. They see me agin in rocking jeans and a tee shirt and want to open the door. But my thought are, you either like me in a pleated dress with an okay body or you don't.

Is it wrong to hide your body to first establish if you like one another at all?