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There is an attractive younger woman I meet at my local CrossFit gym a few months ago. After getting into a several friendly conversations with her I one day asked her to get breakfast.

She smiled at me and said “thank you but I have a bf”. I responded that I respected that and I wouldn’t ask again (while smiling). I believed her at the time and appreciated her handling it the best way possible. She was polite but direct. I didn’t pick up on any negative body language.

Since then I’ve ran into her several other times in class (including a small class with just her, me and the instructor). I act courteous. I’ll give a quick hello and goodbye after class. I even occasionally help her rack heavy weights and move machines (I help other people w/ this too sometimes).

However I don’t start conversations with her anymore. I don’t want her thinking I’m okay with a friendzone or stroke her ego too much by giving her additional attention. However I do act polite to her because she was respectful by how she rejected me

But she’s the chatty type and I’ve overheard her get into long conversations about what she is doing in grad school, her vacations with her friends and her weekend plans with other people. Not once has she ever mentioned her boyfriend. Never. I am starting to wonder she gave me a well intentioned lie.

That doesn’t mean I’ll keep trying if she’s single. She’s obviously not interested in me that way and that’s okay. We both know where each other stands.

But I just wonder why she lied to me about having a boyfriend.

The Nathan: 6'1 190lbs. He is a hot guy with tattoos on his forearms. This guy works in sales for a music company. He has had a lot of casual sex in the past but wants to settle down with a good girl now. He could be described as a "bad boy" but is exciting and you never know what adventure he might take you on. He owns a motorcycle and loves going out drinking with the boys. He wants to do a bit more traveling before chilling out and getting married.

The Jimmy: 6'0 250 lbs. A big guy. He works in business and plays golf in his free time. He earns a very good living and can give you and your family a good life. He will take you to a comedy club, the aquarium, and introduce you to fun facts you didn't know. He is known for having anger issues and has verbally abused a few of his exes in the past, but it is something he wants to change about himself. He is a hardcore republican and owns a few guns.

The Brandon: 5'9 210 lbs. He is a bit short, but heavy, built like a brick wall, but kind of soft on the outside. This guy has kind of a dynamic personality. he's not a very social guy but at the same time he's the guy that everyone likes. He is the laid back type who cracks jokes and cares about the feelings of others. He works in construction, and often appears "rugged" with his work boots and dirty jeans, and a plaid shirt; however, he has very youthful face and certain "young" features that add a certain vulernerabilty to him. He is a virgin, and has only had one girlfriend his whole life. He has a history of depression, and often has a tendency to procrastinate. But feels that his struggles and insecurities has made him a more empathetic person. He enjoys cooking and building his own furniture. He enjoys the simple things in life and wouldn't hesitate to watch a rom com or read a book on the couch with you.