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I have already met my soulmate who i can never be together with and we aren't in contact anymore. He helped me and i helped him and our roles in each other's lives are over. So i don't have to worry about "the one"
The biggest deal breaker in a relationship for me is cheating and i have always advised a break up if your SO cheats. Cheating is the same reason why i am scared to be in a relationship too. It seems that many people here and irl supports cheating too. I had a guy tell me he will pour sulphuric acid on to my face because i asked a girl to break up with her cheating boyfriend. I know a female user here who everyone compliments on how she's such a submissive good girlfriend while she's flirting and sexting her guy friend. Even some of my friends in committed relations talk about new crushes and flirting with hot losers.(They say it's for fun)
Whenever i express my hatred towards cheating, people ask "Did you get cheated on or something?". Obviously i did not. But i feel like what they're saying is i don't have the right to be upset about cheating.
Anyway i got a player guy who have always wanted to "date" me since i am not easy and i am 99.9% sure he will cheat. So if i date him and when he cheats, i may finally be able to get rid of my fear. Once i become immune, i believe that i won't be always thinking if my future SO (someone i love) is cheating and even if he is, I would be used to it.
You would feel like i am being a hypocrite rn so i will stop expressing my anger towards cheating and such questions from this moment onwards. And yes i am alright being a miserable girl who would probably be pitied on (Ik i need help🤷‍♀️).

So basically I'm in a high school band and every day after we have a game we go out to a restaurant. This game I was allowed to stay out and go. So I sat at a table with my friends (including my crush and his friend, who I somewhat know) and my crush asked if I wanted to switch spots with him I said sure but his friend who was sitting next to me pulled me back and said don't switch. I was confused but thought nothing of it. With my closer friends I started to do the hand thing (measure your hand with someone else's) because I'm quite short and they are taller than me so why not. Whatever, we get done doing that with my two friends then I do it to my crush's friend's hand, then to my crush's hand. Not surprisingly I had the smallest or as they called it "baby hands" And then proceeded to call me shortie throughout the night. So we get out food and then my crush's friend started to make jokes around the waiter so I slapped him and then he started to poke me. On the side of my arm, then up onto my face? I didn't do anything because I know he just wanted a reaction out of me. That night the friend also payed for my meal because like an idiot I forgot my money.

My crush can be your best friend one minute then act like you don't exist the next day. My theory is that he gets mad and doesn't want conflict so he'd rather just avoid you. But I am not sure, because his mood changes so suddenly.

This last time he rarely spoke to me and hardly looked at me for 3 - 4 weeks. He would not initiate contact unless I did first. He was nice still, but it was like I didn't exist unless he didn't have any other choice but to talk to me. He spoke to everyone but me! He asked one person, "hey ask (me name) to grab something" and I was literally next to the person he was asking (yes, he knew I was there).

This past weekend, he walked in very excited and happy, started asking me random questions (stuff he could ask anyone else) or tell me things that weren't my concern. He even ran to McDonalds for me with no complaints. It was like nothing strange had happened. I don't think I like this part of him. I know everyone has flaws, but this might be too much for me.