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I think everyone has experienced the "nice guy" phenomenon on the internet. A person, usually a guy, who seems frustrated that even though they act nice, they aren't getting sex or a relationship out of it. Feeling entitled to things by basic nice behaviour that is expected of everyone.

My question is, how many of those people do you think are just trolling, because it's entertaining and definitely always gets attention and responses? How many people actually have that mindset and act the same way in real life?

My personal opinion is, that most people are just trolling to get a laugh or just to kill time. It's still a very controversial topic and a "nice guys" whining never goes unanswered.

Me and this guy have been dating for 6 to 7 months. We had a couple bumps on the way to poly relationship to gauges to disgusting. Our recent was involved me and him watching a yt video on interracial relationships. Where along the lines he says disgusting and I ask him why. He responds along the lines of if I ever slept with a white person and I respond yes. Again along the lines disgusting and that he’s dead serious and he will leave. He asked me how I felt. Already at this point I emotionally checked out. We were silence till we talked about it later. And he went in details on how he didn’t meant that I was disgusting but white people since he been attended a predominantly white highschool and white friends and that’s his morale opinion on them. However I was kinda already ready to let him go because I have lots of patience but I don’t do well with feeling hurt. End result I’ve decided to think over if this is something I want to continue and I’m leaning on the side of letting him go cuz we’re just two different people. And I understand that he didn’t mean to call me disgusting but it still made me feel some type of way that he say he was serious and that he would leave that I slept with a white person that doesn’t make me feel service to continue a relationship with him at all. Though I do serious with letting people go cuz I hate hurting people feelings so it be nice to hear others opinions to see if it’s justified for me leaving him.