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I met this guy who is a friend of my friend. On new years I was out of it and also wearing shorts ( it was cold and raining) and he held me the whole night while me and my friends were outside celebrating. He kept putting his hands between my thighs which turned me on like crazy but I think he was just trying to keep his hand warm. Anyways whenever I see him we always are really touchy. I'm a pretty touchy person I'm guessing he is too but is he into me? He gets pissed if I don't tell him when I'm visiting which I think is cute. Another thing is I have a friends with benefits thing with another guy in the friend group. Should I just stop? Or cut off the other guy right now sense I'm getting into this guy?

I know I've been posting lots of q's about my situation, but please bear with me.
I have feelings for a close friend, but I think he only sees me as a friend. (Friends kiss friends on the shoulder, right?) He and I are almost like best friends, we text everyday, hang out, study, bring each other food when we're busy, and lately we've been seeing each other almost everyday. We also had dinner at a fancy place on my birthday last week (we'd been to dinner before but not as romantic).
So, I have a dilemma. Men have been asking me out but I've been putting them on hold - which I know is bad - because I don't usually date others while I'm close and in love with someone already. My bestie says I need to see other people for a while, my aunt says it's not right to be seeing other people while I'm in a "situationship" with someone else, and another friend tells me to completely move on (but she's been against him/me since the beginning so...) My older, best guy friend says if it were him he'd want me to tell him how I feel before seeing other guys because he may feel the same way and would feel hurt if I started seeing people without telling him.
Who's advice should I take? In my last post, most people picked "move on", but I feel like your opinions - as well as that of my friend who tells me to move on - are based on the one boundary we have. So, this time, I won't write about that "boundary" and to those who read my last post, I'd apprecitate it if you could ignore that fact before voting/commenting your opinions (if you plan to).
Personally,
My heart tells me to let things be and to not care if I'm in a complicated "situationship", as long as he and I are both happy. Which we are.
My head tells me to wake up and listen to my friend who tells me to move on
My gut tells me to see these other guys just to give him a wake up call that i'm not gonna wait around
And a tiny part of me thinks it wouldn't be too bad to confess. I'm just afraid.