The 4 Stages of an American Girl's Life

[Anonymous]

Stage 1 [ The Fun Years] (18-23 yrs)

It's all about having fun,exploring the world, dating cute boys, trying out new things. Relationships typically last 2-6 months with lots of casual dating in between. Sexual experimentation is always the rule rather then the exception.

Stage 2 [The Dinner Years] (24-28 yrs)

Many women begin using their high desirability to begin looking for a potential serious partner and start prioritizing how much money a man makes with looks, sexual compatibility and how fun he is taking up the 2nd, 3rd and 4th spots.

Its all about going to dinner with the next guy and searching for Mr. Right. The women become very picky with which guy they spend time with and demands for material things increase with each passing year. The women in this stage will probe you questions during dates to find out how much you make a year and might even do some snooping behind your back. They will ask their friends how much they think you make. Sex and fun doesn't seem as much of a priority as it seemed during the fun years and going out with someone with money and career seems to take top spot in priority.

Stage 3 [The Dating Power Flip] [29-34 yrs]

Women during this stage are increasingly putting on weight and there are wrinkles starting to be seen on their faces. Chins and guts may appear during this stage. Women are still very demanding at this stage and even more so then the last stage, however, they are finding their appeal to men to be waning. Many women in this stage start cutting down on their superficial list that they held throughout their 20's and give other men a chance realizing this.

Women realize they simply can't attract the same quality of guys as they did in the earlier stages. They are finding more and more guys are less willing to give into their demands and many men will not bend over backwards and jump through hoops to get into a relationship with them. The guys they are attracting are not the ones they really want or had during their earlier stage. Frustration sets in during the late phases of this stage as many women begin to realize that their perfect man is not coming for them.

Stage 4 [ I'll take whatever] (35+ yrs)

The women in this stage have already put on some weight and the age is evident in their faces. Guys who have options and can attract younger women routinely pass these type of women up. When there is a date, the guy demands that the lady pay half or even the entire date.

The women in this stage tend to no what they want and are more confident. You don't need to spit game or play mind games with them to keep them around and they'll cut right to the chase if they want to fuck and/or see you again. In fact, these are the most agreeable women and tend to be very easy pickings at your local bar.

The women will sleep with most any guy of any age range and quality is not a concern anymore. Just getting sex is the real concern for these women. These women are also looking to get married so they on the lookout for men their age who have their shit together and willing to commit to them. Some of the women in this stage will go on an exercise/dieting spree in an attempt to become as slender as they were in the fun years, but no amount of exercising or dieting will make age disappear and doing plastic surgery usually cause them to look unnatural.

[Anonymous]

What a bunch of bogus. Not everyone follows the same lifestyle. And not everyone ages at the same pace. Some people do age quicker than others, so by the time they hit 30, they're no longer in their sexual prime. Beauty is the result of a combination of genetics and lifestyle.

[Fortheholidays]

Believe in the law of averages? I'm sure he didn't really mean everyone lol

[Opinion Owner]

@Fortheholidays I still would like proof about this kind of lifestyle.

[Opinion Owner]

I wonder how the author would write about girls younger than 18.

[Fortheholidays]

Just ask older unmarried women or check online i suppose

[Waffles731]

Not true from what I've seen

[Anonymous]

This is actually entirely true! 100%. However... I think that 18-29 should all be lumped into one category, as the fun years.

Here's what I see as a 25 year old man:
-Most women either had kids in the early teens (18) or their early 20s.
-A lot of women just party a lot, smoke weed, drink a lot and they always snapchat the parties and events they go to (I am 25 and I see 28 year old women doing this on my snapchat)
-They date losers (criminals, deadbeats, losers) and then constantly complain about how there are no good men around.
-Only concerned about hanging and chilling with the girlfriends
-They sleep around a lot and then complain how men only want sex.

The sad thing is that women waste their own time. They constantly blame men for wasting their time... but women do it to themselves.

Instead of actively looking for a partner to settle down with and make memories with that partner... they do everything I stated above.

When a woman hits her 30s, she's aging, she's still single and she is now looking for someone to have a baby with and settle down with... her value will have decreased.

For men... we get better with age... women... not so much so. Women have a limited window (biological clock), but they waste that time.

Men don't have to worry about that... and as we age, we prefer to settle down with someone younger than us.

Honestly... if i was 30 and I met a woman who was 30-33, I wouldn't want a kid with her until I spent a lot of time with her, got to know her, etc. That can take years. By the time most women hit 30, they want a kid within the next couple of years or so.

That is why if I was 30, I would go after the younger women - they look better, I could get them before they start partying hard and I would have more time to spend with them before we start talking about children.

[ElissaDido]

Wrinkles at fucking 29? Seriously though, reading you American Blue Anons it seems like you have a serious premature aging in the US. The women I know don't even have wrinkles in their 40's.
I call bullshit on this one, probably just a bitter blue Anon who doesn't have luck with the ladies.

[Gentlaman]

lmao... ladies... I am a gentleman

[JustheretoChill]

Actually women in America do age fast like that due to the diet in that country.

[ElissaDido]

@JustheretoChill Unless they're on crack and heavy alcohol consumers, I really doubt it

[Waffles731]

@JustheretoChill
Yeah not true,

[JustheretoChill]

@Waffles731 Can you provide research to back that up?

[Waffles731]

@JustheretoChill
How many 29 year old americans do you know and see every day.
None of the ones I know have wrinkles,
That'd be like me saying that all greenlanders live in igloos

[JustheretoChill]

@Waffles731 I see plenty American girls with wrinkles at that stage. Wrinkles do start showing up around late 20's. It's diet and other choices these girls make. Plenty of girls also are into this tanning shit to get that Mediterranean skin that tends to also increase aging process.

[Fortheholidays]

Not just women but people fear turning 30. i wonder why?

[ElissaDido]

@Fortheholidays I don't know either.

[Fortheholidays]

shouldve mentioned that was rhetorical... erm... really not being rude by the way :)

[ElissaDido]

@Fortheholidays well then I don't see what you're trying to say.

[Fortheholidays]

Then thats ok, instead just have a nice day. This isn't really important anyhow

[JRICHARDS1996]

I agree. My mother is almost 40 yet people still mistake her for my older sister because she looks so young.

[Ethrealness]

I'm 22 and engaged... awkward... I did have my slut stage though from 18-20 I guess so that was spot on. Getting married next year with a moderately attractive guy who's struggling financially because jobs are tough to find with his degree, but I still make far less than him. I am starting to think more about money I think because I'm starting to become more independent and realize how important it is. I pay for pretty much everything now except my own house and bills. I consider him my dream guy because (personality-wise) he's everything I've always dreamed of having. He's like Mr. Darcy or every other stoic, intelligent character you see on TV lol. Minus the incredible good looks and wealth, which I feel bad saying, but he self-admits it all the time. Good take and I'm sure this applies to a lot of women but not me thankfully. I'm very happy and ready to spend the rest of my life with my love. :)

[Ethrealness]

Also just to add -- he's my first seriously relationship and only relationship. I only ever partied with guys and stuff but never dated them.

[Ethrealness]

Serious**

[vishna]

"Women realize they simply can't attract the same quality of guys as they did in the earlier stages."

So, the only quality guys are under 29? Sounds like you're fucked too.

[Waffles731]

"
So, the only quality guys are under 29? Sounds like you're fucked too."
I disagree as he is clearly acting like a four year old

[vishna]

@Waffles731
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[Fortheholidays]

I dont think he meant it quite this way

[dudeman]

no lol quality men of any age can just get young women.

[vishna]

@dudeman You mean rich guys? Women can be sugar mama's, Dr. Phil gets rich off of stories like that.

Lol, and I don't know how getting younger women is working out for guys like Johnny Deep XD

[dudeman]

i dont know what you said. too drunk to care.

[vishna]

@dudeman Truly a wild night if you end up drunk on GaG.

[dudeman]

eh more of a regular night playing dota.

[JRICHARDS1996]

We are. While most of what he said is bullshit, there is a shred of truth. Namely, that men are opposite. Whereas women start off at the peak of their beauty then progressively lose it, me start out virtually worthless then do not gain their value until later. It is why women always pursue older men.

[BelleGirl21]

Trooooollllll harder.

I'm 36 and never have any of these stages entered my life.

[SuitAndTie]

Phew!

[Fortheholidays]

I'm really not trying to offend... more curious but you're also 36 with "it's complicated" as your relationship status. Maybe he's not trolling

[BelleGirl21]

@Fortheholidays ah well I'll clear it up for you. I've been married for 15 years but would like to be single. Divorce is not an option. Hence the complicated.
My status used to say married but then I would get a lot of judgements here and a lot of messages asking about my marriage so I changed it.

[Fortheholidays]

Yes I see now, thank you. I'm also sorry if you felt as if i crossed the line at all

[BelleGirl21]

@Fortheholidays no not at all. I can see where you would think that.

[Fortheholidays]

Thanks for being cool

[dudeman]

you got married young. you're the exception not the rule.

[GracefulCharm]

I find older women to be more attractive, they are very sophisticated, funny and charming. They also seem to have a mindset of sharing, younger women are so self-centered, they expect men in the relationship to focus entirely on them.

I think the older a women and still single, she has had more time appreciating herself and being strong single. Women who constantly need a man seem needy and dependent. Some men like that, but I personally like my women strong and independent, I wanna marry someone who is my equal, I don't want to overshadow her.

[Philosopher_Edge]

Wow Anon... You have no idea about dating and women, do you?

Women become AMAZING when they hit 30. They've just hit their stride and generally stopped playing games. You need to actually go out, and meet a few. And actually talk to them, get to know them and stop letting your butt hurt, bitter attitude color your perception.

[Anonymous]

This is so typical haha
I am 21 and have already been proposed too three times. I don't plan on getting married until I am at peace with myself. On top of my health game and doing something amazing for the world with my career.
My age won't make a difference but only make me wiser.
I am buddhist and very spiritual. I have always fallen in love easily and don't play dating games. Men do not confuse me but compliment my femininity.

I would not be with a rich guy because:
1) The more money you hoard have the less you care about the hungry
2) As long as I have shelter, food, enough to visit a foreign land and love. I am happy.

I would not date a man with your mindset.

[lumos]

Huh. Good to know their lives apparently revolve around dating and basically end at 35 years old.

[pnl86]

"35+"

[lumos]

@pnl86 like I said, seems like their lives end there.

[pnl86]

I think so too. Somewhere within 35+ ... maybe 35+43.

[lumos]

@pnl86 ok

[Fortheholidays]

To be honest, it's only one aspect of people's lives

[TadCurious]

Evidently 0 - 18 is not a stage in an American girl's life. LOL

[BigJake]

Gotta be legal, son.

[KRIEL55]

@BigJake you really dont though. i've been through my partying stage muchh earlier.

[Anonymous]

to those guys who say that they will wait until 40 or such to date women who would be in the last stage depicted here: I thought just like you did, for a long time. but thinking more about it, i wondered if this was really worthwhile? would i really like to be with a woman who would only date me out of desperation and fear of loneliness, who would cry after having sex with me and would ditch me the second a better guy comes along? that perspective doesn't sound terribly appealing, really.

a better option for us the ultimate losers are strip clubs. at least we can get to see almost naked women, without needing to have any social skills whatsoever.

[EnglishArtsteacher]

First of all, you could lump 20-29 in one "stage" if you want. I don't know why you divided that age group. Second of all, I actually notice girls are a LOT more fun in their 30's than their 20's. Girls in their 20's are insecure, and afraid to try new thing.

Of course, this all varies too.

[front2back]

I haven't read such horseshit since one of those goddam Jehovah's Witnessses' flyers.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

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[JRICHARDS1996]

I'm not sure I agree with Stage 1 and Stage 2. I think they should be reversed. In my experience, women in Stage 1 are more likely to be picky and only pursue older guys while women in Stage 2 are more likely to settle for less and be more open. This is especially true if they are single mothers.

[Anonymous]

stage 1. Slut around with assholes and friendzone good guys.
stage 2. get pregnant by asshole.
stage 3. cheat and/or get divorced/break up from asshole.
stage 4. Trick good guys who you rejected into marrying you and raising another mans child. With most likely cheating on good guy with former asshole.

[thatkaruguy]

as sad as that may sound thats how it is these days. nobodies loyal cause they are looking for greener grass.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@thatkaruguy We have nobody to blame for it but ourselves though. Too many men have been neutered so that they are giving into the unreasonable demands of women. Instead WE should collectively get pickier and hold women to a higher standard. Then maybe they would come down from Mars.

[DearLife]

Yeah... no. Im not sure what makes you think that you know the lives of every American girl. Everyone's different. Everyone's life is different. Quit pretending like you know shit. You're just one person in a world of billions. Get over yourself.

[Fortheholidays]

First true statement

[Fortheholidays]

For the opinions on this question i mean :)

[BigJake]

Where I live, chins and guts start appearing on girls a lot earlier than the age of 30, hoss.

I hate to tell you this, but women mostly have the drop on us in dating. It sucks, but it's true. Older women don't have the same options as younger ones, but if they maintain themselves, they don't have much trouble getting male attention.

[cth96190]

Both women and men should watch this, especially if they are young.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yk9MREmmWWc

[Indigo91]

Men age like wine, women age like milk.

[LittleSally]

Hahahahaha Sad,... so sad... Good thing I'm not American then. Hahaha
Also... is life ALL about dating? Huh... didn't know that. O. o

[Gommers]

In america it's all about dating and finding a way to take men's money.

[Anonymous]

I've only had one stage "Being weird & sucking at relationships."