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The guy I'm in a sexual relation with told me that he 'almost bought me something' so he asked when is my birthday.

As I've told him that we can see each other for only one last time because I want to. I want to move on to better relationships etc this was just a sex vibe. He tells me that :'I never buy you something nice when is your birthday?' so I'm like no you don't have to. I told him to keep whatever it is he wants to do for me because I feel like he is being very manipulative or I don't know what his trying. He always ask me :'Dont you wanna stay with me until you found the one?' he asked me this tonight aswell. So based on what he was asking me I can see his not genuine or doesn't see me as anything more but he keeps telling me he almost bought me something. And he says even though we gonna do it for one last time he will still buy the gift.

I'm wondering guys? Girls? We have been seeing each other for almost two years now. He tells me he is sorry for the other years he missed. But he feels like he wants to buy me something this year.

Thoughts. Opinions?

so i’ll start from the beginning. this guy used to date one girl i knew. i met him because of that. but last year i ended a long relationship i had, and when she found out my ex was single, she flirted with him. it hurted me but i carried on with my life. anyways, a while ago, this guy she used to date started talking to me. at first i was kinda wondering why was he talking to me, but anyways, we talked like a lot. he told me a lot of things about his life, what he will study, etc. i was kinda liking him until one night like at 1 am he tells me that he liked talking to me and that i was interesting to him. i said the same about him. he told me he was going to sleep and wishes me a good night. he’s 18 years old by the way, and i’ll turn 18 next month. so, next day he didn't start the conversation. maybe it was because he read my texts before going to sleep. i waited a day and decided to answer to his instagram story that it was multiple photos of puppies, telling his followers that he was sad bc he couldn’t keep them. i answered with a good vibe text, like “they’re going to get adopted by a loving family” and more stuff showing support. so he read them but didn't answer. he has been online sometimes after that, it just doesn’t fit for me that he said a thing one day and then he does this. at first i was scared that his ex manipulated him when somehow she found out he was talking to me, but i don’t believe that honestly. i dont know if i should try again in a few weeks or what. pls could you give me some advice?

We were talking about the next steps with each other in the future for our relationship and talking about moving in together within a couple years and i told him i still gotta get a job and save up and help pay for part of things and he told me i dont need a job and i was just like yes and we were just going back and forth on me saying yes and him saying no but in a jokingly matter.

He has talked about it before where he wants to be the provider or if i had an online job if we had to move for his work etc. He would sometimes talk about me having a job but the vibe im getting he wants me to be at home