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Hello, I'm sorry but this will be a little bit long, so in high school there was one girl at my class that we hated each other, we never spoke like regular classmates but always showing that didn't really like one another, and to be honest I always used to harass her even if just walking across her I would throw her a word like stupid or ugly or just bad morning instead of saying good morning... And don't get this wrong sometimes she did answer to speak back at me for the things I call her but we can say that she was pretty much harassed by me. So one day she was standing at the yard with her 3 friends (girls) and I passed next to her and called her stupid girl, so after 10 minutes when the break is over I went back to the class and almost everyone is there and just when I came in she came from behind me and pulled my pants and underwear down, exposing me and it took me like few seconds to realize what has just happened to me while I'm standing there with my pants and underwear to my ankles in front of everyone laughing so hard at me including her and she yelled "haha everyone look how tiny his penis is".

I pulled my pants back up and went home immediately and didn't come to school for 2 days. After that obviously I never mocked her or made fun of her again and never spoke to her again, even when she annoyed me sometimes (like calling me Mr. Small penis) but that was really few times not a lot... Some of the classmates (especially girls) thought she was right but exposing a man's genitals and penis could be the worst hit you could ever land on a man...

So girls, was she right?

A lot of people don’t believe in Karma. I myself have gotten more doubtful over years. There is a zero sum aspect to this world that is unfortunately true. Sometimes you have to step on heads to get ahead. You may or may not have a conscience. If you do have one maybe you have to contend with a guilty conscience. But that seems like a minor price to pay for a lot people given the benefits they can get for their actions.

Anyway I notice people who burn the other gender often make bs excuses for actions because they themselves have been burned in the past. It’s a bullshit excuse because the reality you have with is with that one person and it’s just between you and them. You are not “getting back” at the man or woman who burned you by mistreating an unrelated man or woman. You are not getting your “revenge” You are just harming a person who doesn’t deserve it.

I often blame women for this adolescent behavior. But when I’m brutally honest with myself I confess there have been a few isolated incidents I have done this in my own life. It was particularly during my man whore phase in my late 20s/early 30s. I was never a liar. But I would play dumb with women who I knew wanted a relationship when I just wanted to get laid. I felt some mild guilt about it and but I buried that by remembering how many women burned me for being a “nice” guy in my early 20s. I figured it was “my turn” to enjoy the one way benefits.

But that was wrong. Bottom line is this is really just contributing to a “dog eat dog” shitty cycle that’s making things worse and worse for men and women. We look at scoring one for “our team”. In reality when you screw over someone else in dating they might screw over someone else at some point. There is more distrust. More hate. More selfishness. More toxic femininity. More toxic masculinity.

But Mother Nature meant to bound men and women together for companionship and reproduction. It’s NOT a “my team vs. your team”. It’s supposed to be two halves to a whole.

Hello girls, I'm sorry but this will be a little bit long, I recently saw a girl I went to school with and we spoke about school and we had a little argument about something, I am talking about something that happened at high school, there was one girl at my class that we hated each other, we never spoke like regular classmates but always showing that didn't really like one another, and to be honest I always used to harass her even if just walking across her I would throw her a word like stupid or ugly or just bad morning instead of saying good morning... And don't get this wrong sometimes she did answer to speak back at me for the things I call her but we can say that she was pretty much harassed by me. So one day she was standing at the yard with her 3 friends (girls) and I passed next to her and called her stupid girl, so after 10 minutes when the break is over I went back to the class and almost everyone is there and just when I came in she came from behind me and pulled my pants and underwear down, exposing me and it took me like few seconds to realize what has just happened to me while I'm standing there with my pants and underwear to my ankles in front of everyone laughing so hard at me including her and she yelled "haha everyone look how tiny his penis is".

I pulled my pants back up and went home immediately and didn't come to school for 2 days. After that obviously I never mocked her or made fun of her again and never spoke to her again, even when she annoyed me sometimes (like calling me Mr. Small penis) but that was really few times not a lot... Some of the classmates (especially girls) thought she was right but exposing a man's genitals and penis could be the worst hit you could ever land on a man...

So girls, was she right?