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Well today my mom decided to nag me about my nerdy habits. I have a nephew that's very competitive and he doesn't understand how to cut his losses. I'm sure you guys here understand that when men talk sometimes we get loud or rough with another but that doesn't me we're fighting we're just, "rough housing".

So anyway we usually end up competing in something (usually of his random choosing) and usually I win (not bragging), such as yugioh, bakugan, bey blade, and Pokemon (but not the cards just the games). I don't mind playing because #1: I don't have any friends right now, I haven't fixed my tinder, and all my coworkers are significantly older than me (they call me the baby😑). And #2 it's fun to whip out my old collection and use it every once in a while (especially my yugioh cards). But my mom and his mom (my sister) got mad at us for being, "loud" and my mom told me, " I'm a man, I need to act like one, and grow up"😑. Well first of all I'm not lazy I work and I can't help it if I don't have a car or my own house or any friends my age to do things with. So am I less of a man because I still enjoy things intended for children and spend time with my family?

Hey girls, so I am 21 years old and I've wanted to settle down already, get a wife and kids. To be happy.
I am handsome, cute, passionate about the things I do, I am a funny joker most of the time and giving. Some of those are the things girls have told me. But I feel like that is not the case or the truth. Girls are mean to me. One day girls are smiling and laughing while I am being funny and nice to them, the second day they have changed like what we had yesterday having fun talking was just a fake dream. What happened? This happens so often and I feel betrayed...
I used to be a shy boy, but now I am confident. At this point you are thinking I am a cocky guy. Clear that thought off your mind.
I am getting nowhere with girls. I get no girl to look at me, well I do. The only girls that like me are the ones who do a lot of drugs and stuff. It is not the kind of attention I want. I feel like I am losing hope and I got no other choice, but to settle down with those types of girls. I don't do drugs, I don't smoke or drink. I play basketball so I like to keep myself healthy. Girls don't look at me, and I am not expecting them to approach me. but not to even get a gaze? Something has to be wrong.
What does a guy like me have to do in order to get what he wants in love? My time is ending. If I don't get a girl at 24, It's over for me.

I am not tall (5''7), I am not rich, but I am talented and competitive.

Anyway my situation is so bad that I don't feel like playing basketball anymore, doing anything socially. I honestly feel like I am cursed.

Please don't give me an answer which makes the girls look like the victims here. I want a honest answer. Not an answer that hits a nerve you know? as in the answer makes no sense. If you think I am being a pitiful person, don't. Let whatever you think you feel like the answer you want to put out is, as long as it makes sense, progress for me to get an idea of some sort to understanding of the situation. Thank you