If you haven't seen this challenge yet, you can find it under #whatIfindattractivechallenge; it was created by @AngelicSin and I got challenged by @mel1695 to create a MyTake on this so it should be interesting to see what we have here! With that said, let's just jump right into it!
Let's face it; I'm a feminine guy with a lot of heart and empathy so if you can figure out what kind of woman I like from that kind of information, you'll probably know what I like right there and then! With that said, here are my 6 amazing things I always adored and found attractive in women:
1) They are filled with so much love!
Have you ever felt comfortable around women in general? Women are natural caretakers and want the best for everyone (usually). When they have a goal in mind, it's filled with good intentions; to benefit everyone around them! When I participated in community events or went to hang out with my girlfriend's friends, they were so caring in ensuring everyone was held accountability for their actions, along with everyone contributing fairly in their own way. When they see someone hurt, they want to give you love in comforting you to help you feel better. I'll always appreciate them having this much love to give to people around them!
2) They are so expressive and aren't afraid to show it!
I have to admit that it's really refreshing when women are significantly more likely to be expressive of how they feel! When they display their emotions, it makes me feel like they aren't afraid to show their true feelings, no matter what people or society tells them. When someone is emotionless, I have a hard time understanding how they are really feeling inside besides feeling neglected, ignored, doesn't give a care in the world or was taught to hold their emotions in. Expressions are beautiful; spread them out like a butterfly!
3) A passion to be romantic rather than being lustful!
Women want to feel like they are appreciated for who they are; for their personality more than their looks. I feel bad for them when they get so many messages from horny men who only like them for their physical appearance, their choices of words and not much else. It's not that women don't want sex; they'd prefer to have a romantic atmosphere to be built up to the moment! It's so cute what they do when they're romantic; making homemade cards, giving their lover a back massage, taking them out to a nice dinner and such! With romance being a higher priority over lust, it shows what they want more out of a date/with their significant other!
4) We likely share the commonality of liking adorable things!
Ever heard a woman squeal from something cute like a cat video, a giant cute plush or a couple kissing in a romantic movie? That's the kind of guy I am; kawaii, emojis, shows with romance, heart shirts and such are all things I love! This probably explains why I'd prefer a cute girl over a hot one because we have those common interests in mind. I'm not entirely sure if the majority of girls are into cute things like this but if they are, I'd probably want to be their friend in all honesty!
5) They are more likely to be cooperative rather than competitive!
You're not often going to see girls screaming at the tv when they lose in a competitive match of FortNite, Call of Duty or Overwatch! Most of the time, you'll see them want to play a game where they can cooperate with their partner/friends! It's highly enjoyable when they're looking to have a good time with them with all the silliness and laughter going on. I also feel a lot more at ease when they aren't as likely to snap out in a bad mood if they are losing. It's quite a refreshment to play with them in co-op games whether video games or board games! This also applies to group activities when they all work on a project together!
6) My favorite of them all: They love spending quality time with you!
Even with my girlfriend, they love to bond with you in so many different ways depending on whether you are friends with them or your significant other! They want to know you more on a deeper level so they can relate and empathize with you in every way they learn about you! The more they connect and feel comfortable with you, the more passionate and devoted they will be to you! Have you ever cuddled with the opposite gender? It's so divine I don't know where to start <3 Nothing makes me feel closer to someone than to spend good quality time with them!
That was actually a lot of fun to write! Here's a couple of people I tag for the challenge unless they did it already and if they did, I'd definitely want to see them!
With that said, thank you for reading MyTake on this subject and I wish you a fantastic night!