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Hey Gaggers! Missed y'all lol... just to let you all know i don't own none of these pics or know any of these mothufckas lol I'm just saying. They all came from Google images. This was just something I put together and if you don't like it you can't go to the next question ok? okayyyy ;)
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1. Very intelligent, loves staying indoors, observant, likes reading, quiet, drug free, gives great massages. Very judgmental, never wants to go no where. No humor what so ever. Hate junk food. Loves writing, gives great advice. Sex stays on her mind.
2. Loves art, a great artist, very down to earth, soulful, drug free, smart, loves to travel. Listens to a lot of jazz music, don't believe in having sex, hate scary movies, loves coffee, & loves using shea butter.3. Very materialistic, a make up artist, owns a boutique, loves sipping her favorite wines, promiscuous, loves tanning, a great cook, loves getting her way, very picky, only wears heels.4. The life of the party, very secretive, smokes weed, Love dying her hair different colors, tattoos and piercings, takes showers once a week hates shaving, a math wizard, lazy, loves drunk sex, and video games.5. A very sweet adventurous girl, who models and loves fashions, have a small group of friends, loves dancing and all genres of music. Has 1 child, smokes cigarettes but trying to quite, strong, independent, but haves a deep dark secret and insecurities.6. A comedian, Love making people laugh, very creative, loves anime, junk food, comics, a neat freak, Love science, doesn't want kids, works at a fast food restaurant, listen to 80's rock music only, acts childish at times, very outspoken.7. Very shy, classy, has a great relationship with God, hate sweets, a vegetarian, a nurse, plays 3 different instruments beautifully. Loves to sing and write poetry. Has one bestfriend. A daddys girl, drug free, take 3 showers a day, don't smile much, only enjoy drinking water. Saving herself until marriage.

Ok, so I'm in love with my best friend.

Basically here's the situation-
We really like one another but can't be together because of religious differences. We've been sort of unofficially 'seeing each other' for quite a while now. Because we like oneanother we ended up hanging out all the time and even kissing, cuddling, etc. even though we knew it couldn't go anywhere. (I know most of you will immediately be thinking, 'This is a terrible and stupid, you're both gonna get hurt!' And trust me, we know, but it's just the situation we kind of fell into)

I know I love him, and really want to say it, but I have a dilemma.
We know our relationship won't ever go anywhere, we've already gone too far. By saying the three words I could just be leading him and myself on even more, setting us up for yet worse heartbreak.
Here's the other thing though, I'm a firm believer that if you love someone, you should let them know. One day something may happen, and you'll never be able to tell them, and you'll regret that forever. Love is a wonderful and pure thing, it's amazing to know someone feels it for you. Also, although I'm in love with him, that doesn't mean I don't still love him as a friend also. Even in the future when we've both moved on, I'll still love him and want to be close to him.

I'm curious to see what other people will make of this situation, so, feel free to vote and leave your thoughts.

NOTE- I know a lot of you are gonna be yelling at your computer that this is bound to end badly, and we should end it before we get hurt. A lot of you will also be thinking that we shouldn't let our differences get in the way and should be together anyway. But this question is only about what the title asks, I'm not looking for advice about our friendship in general, just whether the L word is a good idea.

It's hard to get over an Ex. It took me 3 months to get over him.. and 9 months to actually move on and be with someone else. I was mad at myself for being so upset because he cheated on me and straight up left me. Leaving me in the dark. He didn't tell me why until 2 months later he came back and got the rest of his stuff. He basically just told me he was bored with me and that I didn't give him enough sex. I felt whatever the reason was he could've just been a man and told me before just getting up and leaving me. The next day after he left I cried because all the shit I did for him I really loved him and he made me feel that he actually loved me deeply as well. After he broke up with me. I soon began to have insecurities, became depressed, and felt I could never be happy again. But obviously God had another plan... he brought another man into my life that is very special to me. We been together for 6 months and now where engaged and I'm happier then ever. I moved from california to Vegas... found me a place... got a job... met new friends... joined a bowling league and met my king. Some advice for people that's having a hard time letting go and want to move on... first get out of that dark place. Dont hide...& dont get to down about it. Especially if your the one that put your all into the relationship Forgive & forget. Please know your worth... love yourself... and BE YOURSELF. Don't rush into a relationship build a friendship with a person first. Build trust with that person. If you feel that person deserves your heart then believe in that person believe in love, it's real... you deserve love. Make sure you love yourself before loving someone else. Your worthed. & Don't go breaking others hearts because yours was broken. Love makes the world go round. Please put your opinion... and feel free to give some advice thankyou :)