Why I Went From Being a Great Boyfriend to a Self-Centered Player

[Anonymous]

I used to be a very good boyfriend. If I was dating you, it was because you were someone who affected me on a daily basis like no one else. I didn't have too many relationships. I am a great listener, I offer great advice, I help with any problems and whenever there's a problem, I don't freak out. I even stay in the relationship till the very end. No matter how hard it gets for me, and it's gotten hard.

Fact is, girls are mean. You spend all this time getting attached to them as they drift away from you while they pretend they have fallen in love. I always read posts on here- or better yet all over the internet about how there are no more good men. They go on to describe all these details and characteristics that I have and I ask myself "Where the hell are the girls that actually practice what they preach?"

I'm so sick of being the good guy and listening to girls complain and when the exact thing they are looking for is right there. Thats why I changed what I do. I'm tired of getting attached to people who don't really want a relationship. I don't feel bad about it anymore, you know what I do? 9/10 times, I walk up to girls, start a conversation, get a number and it rarely takes longer than 2 weeks to fuck the shit out of them. I'll be fucking some other girl during the time it takes to work the new one over. I can get everything from free rides to cash for it too.

Girls always complain about guys doing this to them but they do it just as much. Plus they complain after they do it to men and they act like victims. So I guess that's just how it is, girls and guys always trying to take advantage of each other.

So that's it, I'm gonna keep tricking girls into thinking they want anything to do with me until I find one who is actually worth anything. Which may take a lifetime to find.

You wanna know why it's so easy for me by the way? Its because I can look at a girl and tell exactly what she wants. I know it better than they do.

[ManaX]

You sound like your trying to get revenge on women because one or two hurt you. Continue, if a girl stupid enough to fall your crap then let her fall. Screwing a ton of women inherently isn't going to make you feel that much better in the long run. I've been you, but not because I was hurt I just found it fun to not be 'tied down'. Do you think girls can't play the same game?

[myTake Owner]

Overall, I'm a much happier parson right now. And since I'm not looking for a relationship right now, I don't really care too much if the girl is stupid or not. And yea, I know girls play that game, if you read the post you'd know that that's part of the reason for my change.

[ManaX]

I did read it, but whatever. To each their own.

[Marinepilot]

I get this. My sentiments exactly.

[RJGraveyTrain]

You do realize that not all girls are just mean, cold hearted people and that your experiences do not reflect the identities of an entire gender, right?

You do you man but you're the one is going to end up sad and alone one day.

[myTake Owner]

Of course not, and no sane person should read what I wrote and think that I mean what I say literally. Generalist statements speak in general terms, that why it's general. I think most people know this in the back of their heads and a large part of the reason they bring it up anyway is because the overall message resonates in an uncomfortable way.

That is in no way an attack on you by the way. I love seeing your posts and even though I may not agree with them all, I think you seem to be at least a decent person. Again, I only speak in general terms through my perspective which I think I roughly outlined.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Thank you, and if you put it that way, I can see what you mean.

[Anonymous]

But the thing is, any girl who is "worth anything" sounds like she's worth more than being with someone who screws over women on the way to find her (God knows of course).

I'm sorry you feel dumped on by women. But that's no reason to turn sour. That sounds like a reflection on you. Many many people act like jerks but that doesn't mean it's ok for you to do the same.

[Anonymous]

I'll be honest, I want the guy that makes a great boyfriend. I'm not the type of girl to leave. I'm the type that will stay and try to make it work.
I must be a rare kind.

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

Alrighty then.