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Hi, I met this girl back in may 2023, a distance relationship, and we broke up recently. To be shorter I’m gonna say that she used to love me more than I loved her, we both put effort but she always put more, she used to be so excited about me, but recently we broke up because her feelings towards me changed, she isn’t excited about me anymore, and in her heart she doesn’t feel anything about me, she doesn’t feel the way she used to. I made my mistakes and we’ve been through up and downs, but I always gave her love and care. Throughout our relationship I matured and changed, I became a better person and learnt to give her all the love and care she deserved, even before the break up, but it was already too late. She said that there might be even the slightest chance that I can make her fall in love, win her heart again, get her back to me, and despite everything I never lost my hope and I’ll keep working hard for her, because I know that I’m a better man now and I deserve a new chance, even she said that I can have it, so what would you suggest me to do? What should I do to make her fall in love again? I’m in such a pain that I can’t explain by words, I want her back because I really can’t live without her, she was and she is my everything, and knowing that I actually have a chance relieves me but I need help pls, what should I do to get her back?

I am 26. I have it all going for me—awesome life, great achievements, tall and I’m really lucky. I can use apps and get plenty of matches, but I often find that I’m not treated well

What makes me consider giving up is the reality that when I see an attractive woman, she’s often distracted by endless options. ADHD attraction. It leaves me wondering if all this effort is even worth it. A friend told me the average girl has the same options as like a celebrity male. Kinda believable.

Should I just step back from the dating scene? It’s depressing. I can say I should be able to attract a stunning girl without too much effort when I realistically weigh up my life, my friends agree, so where is she? The problem I have is that I’m good looking but not very very good looking. I think that’s what you need, insanely good looks.

I added a poll to make votes easier 😅 I will pick what wins

First and foremost, lying is a NET POSITIVE as it has evolved among ALL species studied for the propensity for deception. The simple, harsh truth is that liars gain advantage and people who do not lie or cannot tell they're being lied to are, inferior, from an evolutionary standpoint. Suck it up. Liars win. Marks lose.

Lies we tell to PROTECT OURSELVES:

We might lie to avoid punishment. For example, children often lie about whether they have completed their homework. If they tell the truth, their parents might insist that the homework be done immediately, which could preclude their participation in a recreational activity.

We might lie to prevent ourselves from being embarrassed about behavior we regret or because we don’t want to reveal private information that might be used against us. We may worry that public awareness of such information can cause us stress or anxiety.

We might lie to avoid conflict. For example, a spouse may choose not to tell the truth about how they feel about their spouse’s behavior for fear that an uncomfortable disagreement might arise.

We might lie to gain social acceptance from a particular group. For example, we might feign interest in a subject matter to join a group that extols that subject. Or, we could post partial truths or fabrications on social media to become popular.

We might lie to get ahead in a competition or business. For example, a businessman might falsely claim great success in the past to secure a new business interest. Such lies can also make us feel better about ourselves when others believe us.

We might lie in a relationship to maintain control. For example, we might falsely state that we have brought a lot of money into a partnership.

Lies we tell to protect others:

We might lie about an illegal activity undertaken by a friend so that the friend does not suffer from negative consequences.

We might lie about something to spare the feelings of someone else.

If Trump won back in 2020 I have no doubt there would of be mass rioting across all the major cities in the USA including Washington DC. The summer BLM riots would just have been a prelude. It would of made J6 look like a picnic.

But now America got a full taste of the alternative for the last 4 years. Sure there will always be die hard democrats but a lot of moderates and swing voters have become very disillusioned with the DNC.

I predict there to be some rioting in November if Trump wins. It’s going to be ugly but not as bad as could be in 2024.

Anyway if you are planing on participating in this bs I say go right ahead. Go ahead because it will directly negate any “threat to democracy” bs argument you fixated on ad nauseam when it came to J6. Go ahead and make an ass out of yourself.

What does he need to have or do to be attractive enough for her? How much of a disadvantage does he have to overcome? Tell me your ideal 5'6'' man who would win your heart.

Women are often accused of virtue signaling in these cases, but please give the harsh and honest truth. If you are a girl who is thin yourself, then your opinion is especially appreciated!