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it all happened at work, one day my assistant manager texted me on DM and told me if i was interested in dating someone or going on a date with someone. i knew who it was because another co worker told me that this girl named becca liked me. eventually decided talking to her on Easter and texting her if she would go hiking with me and grab some lunch after. did that. went great, met up a couple of times as well. never lacks on texting, always catching up on what i’m doing and always try’s to start a convo. USUALLY she’ll always ends up texting me a good morning since she wakes up earlier than me so she’s beats me to it. we had set a day for a movie night last weekend and things happened. BUT before the movie night, my assistant manager came up to me and told me have i made a move yet, i said no because i don’t wanna scare her away and her thinking i’m that typical guy. she told me to make a move. i’m pretty sure becca told my assistant manager to tell me to make a move... but we made out for a good 1 hr at our “ movie night “ and me hoping that she had a great time because it felt like she did. texted me the next morning like the usual, like “ nothing happened” which was ehh okay with me. now she’s really giving me late responses, doesn’t text me a good morning anymore, keeps saying she’s been really busy. i mean it’s finals week as well but at least follow up. i te texted her, “ have a good night  “ never responded until i told her a good morning again and she responded and said “ hey you, i’m having a great day thanks. i’m almost done with classes ” i texted back saying that i wanted to ask her to go watch a movie to me and it’s been 9 hrs that she hasn’t responded. i’m lowkey worried because things started changing after that movie night. but also she mentioned way before the time i first started texting her that she wanted to meet my friends , even spend my fits to bday with me.. like i’m confused!! what should i do? did she loose interest or is she just busy?

it all happened at work, one day my assistant manager texted me on DM and told me if i was interested in dating someone or going on a date with someone. i knew who it was because another co worker told me that this girl named becca liked me. eventually decided talking to her on Easter and texting her if she would go hiking with me and grab some lunch after. did that. went great, met up a couple of times as well. never lacks on texting, always catching up on what i’m doing and always try’s to start a convo. USUALLY she’ll always ends up texting me a good morning since she wakes up earlier than me so she’s beats me to it. we had set a day for a movie night last weekend and things happened. BUT before the movie night, my assistant manager came up to me and told me have i made a move yet, i said no because i don’t wanna scare her away and her thinking i’m that typical guy. she told me to make a move. i’m pretty sure becca told my assistant manager to tell me to make a move... but we made out for a good 1 hr at our “ movie night “ and me hoping that she had a great time because it felt like she did. texted me the next morning like the usual, like “ nothing happened” which was ehh okay with me. now she’s really giving me late responses, doesn’t text me a good morning anymore, keeps saying she’s been really busy. i mean it’s finals week as well but at least follow up. i te texted her, “ have a good night :) “ never responded until i told her a good morning again and she responded and said “ hey you, i’m having a great day thanks. i’m almost done with classes ” i texted back saying that i wanted to ask her to go watch a movie to me and it’s been 9 hrs that she hasn’t responded. i’m lowkey worried because things started changing after that movie night. but also she mentioned way before the time i first started texting her that she wanted to meet my friends , even spend my fits to bday with me.. like i’m confused!! what should i do? did she loose interest or is she just busy?

Been in the dating scene for the past 7-8 years, like every guy out there at first i thought that love, compassion and attention will get you the girl, since i saw some guys making it work... turns out these guys either seriously lucked out out or had other attractive qualities "money" .

In reality the dating scene was a little more complicated than showing love and attention to get women, i once ignored a girl whom i had feelings for and for some reason she decided to not pursue anything with me any further, and i was surprised when she came to me a while later asking why do i avoid her and showing far more interest in me than before... my first ex i almost showed no interest in and never considered dating or flirting with her but after a few text messages (she messaged me) we ended up going on a date and dating for a while, my now ex acted weird and distant at first, so i ignored her, she started pursuing me harder and finally i told her i have no interest in girl who acts like she does (she is hot by the way ) ... the result? dated for 3 months, she probably even left her boyfriend to date me.

between these two gfs i met plenty of women be it at college or out of college, and what i noticed was that showing any kind of attention in women almost always led to them losing interest in me, when i acted distant and made no effort i had compliments and interest from all kinds of girls and they werent shy about showing it, showing little to no interest in women has helped me a lot and i still can't figure out why is it like that?

I've done it three times, while I'm not proud of it, I'm not entirely ashamed of it either. I've never been on a date in my life and I've always felt a sense of inferiority over others because of it. This often leaves me feeling that there's no point in trying because I know damn well no girl will date me when the world is full of men who are objectively better than me in every way. So I hired an escort, she was very nice to me and I enjoyed both her company and the sex. I wanted to see her again, so a few weeks later, I met up with her again, the connection was more deep and beyond just a business arrangement, but I eventually came to terms with the fact that it wasn't going anywhere outside of appointments. After many months, I decided to give dating another try, only to get stood up 11 times which kept my streak of never being on a date alive. So I hired another escort and she gave quite terrible service. I'm falling back into the abyss very quickly and it's only a matter of time before I hire another one because admittedly, there's no other way for any woman to want to do anything with me. I have people who love me unconditionally, there's people I'm always there for in their darkest days, but they can't be there for me during mine. What do you think of people who hire escorts?