I've done it three times, while I'm not proud of it, I'm not entirely ashamed of it either. I've never been on a date in my life and I've always felt a sense of inferiority over others because of it. This often leaves me feeling that there's no point in trying because I know damn well no girl will date me when the world is full of men who are objectively better than me in every way. So I hired an escort, she was very nice to me and I enjoyed both her company and the sex. I wanted to see her again, so a few weeks later, I met up with her again, the connection was more deep and beyond just a business arrangement, but I eventually came to terms with the fact that it wasn't going anywhere outside of appointments. After many months, I decided to give dating another try, only to get stood up 11 times which kept my streak of never being on a date alive. So I hired another escort and she gave quite terrible service. I'm falling back into the abyss very quickly and it's only a matter of time before I hire another one because admittedly, there's no other way for any woman to want to do anything with me. I have people who love me unconditionally, there's people I'm always there for in their darkest days, but they can't be there for me during mine. What do you think of people who hire escorts?
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I can understand your situation. But why not try and improve yourself. Keep working on your self development, and not just because you want girls but for yourself.
Go to the gym, improve your technical, business and social skills. Aim higher. Try making more money, be ambitious and have goals. Work on getting the promotion you want, or a better job or expanding your business, whatever it is.
Travel somewhere, take good care of your health. You can maximize your looks by improving your style and dressing sense. Who doesn't want to look their best? Go out with friends, expand your social circle. Work on your hobbies, do something you've always wanted to do.
Don't fixate on one issue in your life. Don't make it about getting a girl. Value yourself and be confident that you'll find someone who will value you.
11 girls rejected you and stood you up. Don't worry about it. Ask more girls out. What's the worse they can do, reject you. Let them. It shouldn't matter to you. It's a trivial thing. You're so much more than that. There are very few people in this world who will value you and your time. And it's difficult to find such a girl. Every good thing in this world is difficult to achieve. Love, respect, money, a good physique. Everything takes time and hard work.
You say there are objectively better men out there whom girls prefer. Try to be like them. Be better them. Try, at least. Don't be the guy to surrender before the fight.
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I've tried for years, it's only been counterproductive
Counter productive? How? Are you telling me you've tried improving your technical and social skills and haven't gained anything from it? Or that you've been going to the gym for a while and haven't improved your physique? You need to quit the negative mindset. You're in the 18-24 age group. You can improve a lot. What about your looks? That might be an issue but it isn't anything you can't overcome. Confidence and a charming personality go a long way.
Eh, life is hard. If you're both up for it and it helps ya' get through, cool. As well, it's never a bad thing to learn to be okay with yourself more, or maybe going to some meetup groups or something and see if ya' can't expand that friend group a bit more. Best of luck mate!
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They are all far away and require me to be 21 which I'm not
Truly their is nothing wrong with being with an escort. Reason I say that escorts are the best way 2 go 2 get what u need. Reason women hate on them is cause they are willing 2 do what it takes 2 please a man. The problem in today world is you have 2 many women. Who think they are 2 good 2 do certain things 2 please a man. When actually they are women who need not cast judgement. Worst of all half of those type women don't want 2 even work. They think everything should be handed 2 them cause they are sweet and innocensent.
I understand them and thought about getting one myself. I just don't feel comfortable yet. I can't imagine myself getting in on. I got no experience. But I do think it's a great way to gain experience without being too hard on yourself. Because you know that she won't care or share anything about you. If you perform bad, she won't spread the message to her friends. And probably never run into her again. So there is less pressure.
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