Should inexperienced men hire escorts?

[Anonymous]

I feel a lot of animosity when i ask for help in learning to date and people throw my admitted inexperience back in my face. Escorts seem like the clear option as i fail on tinder and bumble, and i do not have the courage to cold approach woman.
Admitting i have this issue causes more grief than good.
Any guys have experience with this?

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+1 y

Yea my future wife is probably out enjoying her 20's or with a man rn, or rejecting some guys. Is she considering that I'm in a crisis of manhood trying to get to her level?

[Anonymous]

My current boyfriend lost his virginity to a prostitute. I found out eventually and had a hard time seeing him the same way it really tore me up and broke my heart. You have to think about the reprocussions of things. I wish he had considered his future wife before making that decision. That being said it’s a matter of moral opinion and perspective however it will be difficult to find a women who isn’t affected by this. Go online dating it’s a good way to practice chatting without the in person pressure.

[notshyguy1985]

Holy shit

[Asker]

I can't even get a match on tinder...

Would have even dated him if he didn't have the confidence via losing his virginity?

[Asker]

Like I hate that women think that all men have all options open to them. "Too short, not white, not experienced" I hear it all. But they assume ALL men have it as a cake walk.

[Opinion Owner]

He is shy he is not a typical confident guy but I was able to see past it and put in the effort to know him. We were friends for a year first. he was 30 years old when we met. I’m not assuming it’s easy for you and I’m sorry you are having a hard time but all you can do is keep putting yourself out there and create opportunities. The right girl for you might take a while but don’t shut yourself down and get jaded to the point that you shoot yourself in the foot whenever that opportunity shows itself. I think that sleeping with a prostitute will hurt your chances more than help them.

[No_Archons]

I don't think escorts will give you confidence. If you just wanna have sex it's not hard man, just find a girl with low self esteem and manipulate her the same way all the other guys do

... if you wanna be a morally bereft piece of shit like them XD CHOOSE YOUR CHARACTER! Innocent and moral virgin or asshole fuckboy?

My advice to all men: Better yourselves, raise your prospects, then women will flock to ya. Then you get to be the picky one

[Anonymous]

Yes. Prostitutes will fix you right up.