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So my brother started losing hair at 17, it was kinda like alopecia but not.. It made him mostly bald young, he opted to shave his head cue ball bald all the way to the skin... he's pretty pale but many people say he pulls it okay. But he's been very depressed saying now he won't get a decent looking girl... and I get a guy wanting a pretty girl... I couldn't date a bald guy so I get his concern about it being unattractive. So I figured I'd come here to get honest non-feel good answers, could you date a guy who was bald at 19? Fully knowing he couldn't grow hair? Be harsh... maybe I can talk him into a wig if it's really that bad

I'm going to try and make this as short and sweet as I can. A bit about each of them (using random names here so don't mind that) -

Guy 1 - Beau. I've known him for two years now. I worked with him in 2013, and that was how we met. He's the rebellious, bad boy, dangerous vibe kind of guy. And I mean dangerous in the good sense. He's a bit of a swinger, not caring for relationships and being tied down. I'm alright with that. He's helped me really break out a bit from the shyness I have. We're always flirty with each other and any experience I have is with him, though not all the way.

Guy 2 - James. I've known him for a bit over a year. He's more of your average guy, and in the Army reserves. We both like each other, andthough he asked me out a year ago and I said no, I finally said something about it, and we've agreed to try and go out.

Problem. I've hung out with Beau more than James, and now, ever since I've told James I liked him, I've been questioning my decision. At first, when I told Beau about it, he seemed jealous, but I'm not sure now. They're both fun to hang out with, but with James, it seems there's no spark. I wondered if it was because I haven't seen him since I told him I liked him, but we're not flirty at all with each other even over text, whereas with Beau, we (not always) are a lot of the time. I feel that spark, that nervous excitement when I'm around him. But the biggest issue is, if I stay with James, I could risk Beau actually wanting something, but if I say nevermind to James, I risk Beau not wanting something, and me losing a chance. I guess the shortest way to put it, is I'm torn between them both, and I don't know who to pick. I don't want to hurt either person.

Any advice at all would be extremely helpful. Any confusion, or need any more info, please don't hesitate to ask. I know this was kind of quick and may not be clear. Thanks in advance for any help!