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So many "purple pill" men online are telling each other vet and size women up the same way women have for years.

Check where she went to school.
What did she study?
How good is she in her career?
How successful is she?
How much does she make?
Does she have a past of having emotional issues?
Has she beaten any ex-boyfriends? Why?
Does she have any false abuse or rape claims in her past?
Does she look for problems and pick fights out of entertainment?
Is she creative? Is she productive?

What does SHE bring to the table?

This is men talking like feminists and now it's a problem? Why?

I'm not talking about online dating sites I'm talking about dating a girl from another country only online until you get a chance to meet in real life. I've done it once before so I'll share my story, I know that everything about this seems cringy and weird as hell but please read
On the beginning of scholar year in 2017, my friend showed me a YouTube channel called poppy, just Google it if you don't know her the channel is so weird. So I don't know why but I became a fan and i entered something like a fandom on Twitter and I started texting some of her fans and well, i texted a girl named Victoria and we were friends ever since
She was really shy and actually she was lonely in real life and doesn't have too many friends at school. She was pretty thoug and I really liked talking to her and we almost texted 15 yours a day... anyway so after some time I told her that I love her and I knew she did as well so we started dating.
She was perfect in my books, we didn't even video chat or anything like that but I mean her character. She was everything i ever wanted. She was a little bit shy, she was like cute and was a little bit worried sometimes and tells me about her problems and she was also religious like me but she wasn't like way too religious which was great she was also she was one year older. She was from Poland.
But after some time I had some problems with the fans, they were annoying and kept calling me stuff like homophobic and also were attacking my friend Jake. So after some time I noticed my Ex was changing, she started being like more popular and didn't even want to talk to me, she started being anorexic as well, that cute shy schoolgirl started cussing and saying weird stuff and liking "really weird" tweets. After some time she told me she wants to break up and I was shocked because she was always the one telling me "please promise to never break up"... I I beleive it's this crazy lesbian that made her do it, that woman always hated me

The question is for those who have a physical disability, and those who are struggling with (chronic) physical and mental health problems.

I don't consider my self someone with physical disability, although I find it difficult to walk (probably my escoliozis has to with it), and I actually listen to people comments. They bother me less than in previous years, and had me thinking about what type of women I should be looking for.

My ex (if I can call her ex) said many things to me, but her actions speak louder and know I now she wasn't gonna be able to handle my situation. All what I experienced with her make me understand online dating isn't for me. I need that direct contact to know how honest that potential partner is.