TELL HIM. DO NOT BE COY. DO NOT BEAT AROUND THE BUSH. FUCKING TELL HIM. TELL US. WE ARE NOT PSYCHIC.
This shouldn't take too long.
Ladies. Girls. Women. Females. Chicks and chickettes everywhere.
If you are interested in a guy/think he's handsome/think he's whatever, TELL. HIM. I know this is something that a lot of girls grapple with, because most of the time, girls (per evolutionary biology) want to BE chased, rather than do the chasing themselves. And that's fine; no problem-- most of the time, guys want to do the chasing (per evolutionary biology)! However, the guy is not going to be doing any chasing if he does not know you are interested at all in the first place.
Trust me, most guys want to chase you if we are interested in you in the first place, but you need to take the first, crucial step of letting us know. I know it may be scary (a bit), but get over it, girl up, and LET. US. KNOW. Then let the guy take the wheel and chase you, and he will, if he's interested.
The problem we run into in the dating world is that girls by and large have NO idea how to actually show us interest. They think that like, looking at us or saying two words to us or "liking" one of our pictures on Facebook or some shit is "showing interest." ...NO. IT'S NOT. I've seen soooo many posts everywhere online and on GaG about that fallacy. Saying "hi" and looking our way IS NOT showing interest.
Telling us that you like us or think we're cute or handsome or whatever is showing interest. Tell us that.
Don't simply look at us.
Don't simply stand there.
Don't give us a single smile and then think that's flirting and be confused when we don't get it.
Fucking *TELL US.*
Think about how easy this is-- you let him know by saying "I like you" in a text or in person, and if he likes you, he chases you. If he doesn't, then he won't, or he's flaky enough that he won't, but that's not cool either. So basically, you win either way; you either get him, or he lets you know that he's not interested or he's a flake. Guys are not psychic, and even when we can tell that you're flirting with us (on the occasions that the flirting is done well), that alone doesn't mean that we know you're interested since casual flirting does occur, right?
So, know how to make it really simple? Here's how: TELL US. Like I said, I know this can be nervewracking to put yourself out there (welcome to being a guy), so if it makes it easier for you to do it in a text or something rather than face-to-face, that's perfectly okay. Guys will still be okay with that.
If I could make the text size bigger, I would. TELL. US. TELL HIM.
It may not be easy, but it's very, very simple. And you're more likely to get better results.
~ Thaaaanks. Hugs and kisses.