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Like for example if a woman likes a man and acts on her feelings by pursuing him, and he kind of backs off in a shy way, knowing at that time, he had fear of being in a relationship out of maybe not wanting drama in his life, if the relationship didn't work out... how often do you see a woman would still continue to win him over just to prove to him that she can be a suitable mate to him? She would of already gotten over him, knowing if she would continue to hope that he opens up to her, that would be beneath her cause she wants to feel like a grand prize. (Which I disagree)... But if I'm wrong about there are some women who do win a second chance at wanting her male crush, then give me a story.

Guys on the other hand if he pursues a woman but she wasn't interested in him at first cause she thought all he wants to do is play games, but still he didn't let that stop him from winning her trust, then all of a sudden she changes her mind about him and from then on they became a couple and get married.

After what I just said, does this means men need women more than women need men? Like men have to have women just to feel happy in complete in society, but women on the other hand don't need men, women just feel like having a man in her life is just a bonus.

Me as a guy I feel like having a woman in my life is a only a bonus, as long as I have friends and family that care about me and a great job to support myself, then there's no way I should feel like I'm miserable... regardless of how many people will tell me "dude you need to get laid" I won't live my life base on their opinion. If a woman is single and enjoying life, you never hear people tell her "girl you need to get laid", and to me that's a double standard.

So I met this girl and we get along really well. The first date, went really well. No awkward silences, everything went as well as you could imagine. For some reason she told me a obvious lie and she said she didn't like me. Three weeks later she asks for a second chance and she really did like me but has trust issues. (her ex fiancée cheated on her) Anyway I'm an honest guy, about anything and everything. I am decent looking, go to the gym 7 days a week, I'm also intelligent. I have a nice car and within reason, money isn't an issue. I'm not a drug addict. There are other girls that I could talk to, but I don't, based on principal. I'm only seeing her and I'm only talking to her. I don't ignore her texts. I do everything right and just be myself, I don't act with different intentions etc. We have talked and we are both looking for a relationship. I've let her know on multiple occasions that I like her a lot, and she is someone I would like to start a relationship with. She has mentioned that she likes me too, but 'it will be hard for me to trust someone again.' I have not given her any reason to not trust me. I've been cheated on in the past too, but I don't let that ruin future relationships. I saw her one weekend and we caught up and talked a lot, eventually I went home and we agreed to see each other soon, she said she was really glad we talked etc. I enjoyed her company. But then the next day she just flat out ignores me for nearly a whole day, I ask if she wants to see me and she just makes up excuses. I don't know what her motives are and honestly it feels like she isn't interested. I'm feeling like I'm doing all the work, wasting my time and she is just going to use me again. I just want to know what a girl may think about her intentions, or behaviour. And what I should do next?