Search Results: should i make a move or wait

Quiet, shy guys, would you be comfortable with a girl pursuing you like this?

I’ve been working with a guy for several years. At work he’s so quiet, he doesn’t say much at all to anybody. We usually just say Hi and Bye. But I’ve always had a crush on him. I spoke with my coworkers and they (guys)...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I keep pursuing this guy?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Where do I go from here?

So I told a guy I had feelings for him about 2 months ago. We got pretty close, but nothing ever happened and we didn't start dating. He was never straight with me about if he felt the same way or not. He just says "idk...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating After an Emotionally Abusive Relationship

A year and a half after leaving my emotionally abusive ex, I just started seeing another guy. He's very respectful, is fluent in three languages, is a hard worker, doesn't want kids, and has been patient with me wanting...

1truekhaleesi

Editor Age: 29

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Flirting

If your crush ended up being taken but finally agreed to leave their bf/gf, how long would you wait til you’d make a move?

For once this is not about me 😂 just a general question. But Would you make a move instantly or give them some hours, days, weeks, months, years, etc? Like the lyrics to this song... “I should be your boyfriend...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Should I wait or make a move?

So I met this cute guy 1 week ago. We did this eye flirting thingy but noone spoke between us. The next time I went again to see his performance and he remembered me! So I initiated the convo and we talked for 10 mins or...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How long after the second date should I wait for a third?

she’s a girl. Uhm we just went on a second date on Thursday but it was the movies, the first date was a club. so I am keen to go on a third one fast to get to know her and sense compatibility. I think i messed up as...

anonbrunette99

Yoda Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

Should I make a move or wait a bit longer?

Okay, so I have this female colleague (not in my team, just same floor). In early December we started making eye contact whenever encountered each other on the hallways. In mid-December when she was staying late in, I've...

Fevris

Xper 3 Age: 42

Marriage & Weddings

Should I move on or wait for him?

So basically long story short this guy i liked he basically went jail but b4 he went he told me the truth on why his going and by the time he did literally I went out with this guy he knows through a mutual friend....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I wait for him to make the first move?

So this guy I know from a few years ago (we partied together once or twice) and I matched on tinder, I didn't message him cause I was scared to make the first move. A few days later, he unmatched with me. I saw his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Loosing interest in a guy after a few dates?

I've on 3 dates with this guy I met online and I think I am not attracted after all. The first date was great. He was talkative and we laughed as well. I was happy to meet for the second time. It was a date were he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did I make a mistake?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year, and a few weeks ago we began planning on moving in together like in 2 years when I graduate college. It was mainly his idea but I agreed and was happy about it. He also...

Anonymous

(25-29)

In between his mom and myself. Should I stay or leave?

Hi guys! I truly need your honest opinion... I've known my fiancé for almost two years now. We've been engaged for seven months. I love him, and I truly believe it's reciprocated. However, since we've been engaged and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex and old/new feelings?

I’ve known my ex for almost 5 years now. Off and on. After high school, he said he doesn’t do long-distance relationships. So every time I come back in town he always made time to see me and I guess to make up for lost...

SassyStar47

Xper 4 Age: 27

Society & Politics

myReview

IRAN: What Ignorant Trump Supporters DON'T Know

With the recent killing of General Soleimani, and US-Iranian relations being at an all time low, I feel it is important now more than ever to write this MyTake. After Iran implemented a travel ban on U.S. citizens a...

ZeussLightningBolt

Editor Age: 34

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Online Dating: If You Haven't Had Good Results... Read This! (Part 3)

[This is a continuation of two myTakes posted over the past two days. See Part 1 here: Online Dating: If You Haven't Had Good Results...Read This! (Part 1) and Part 2 here: Online Dating: If You Haven't Had Good...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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When to Go Exclusive

I've been thinking about doing a Take on this topic for quite some time. I've seen some people do everything right - approaching confidently, communicating well, planning and going on great dates only to trip and fall...

Avicenna

Master Age: 55

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Should I just break things off and move on?

Boyfriend and I are 25, been dating for about a year and last night my boyfriend was supposed to come over, HE planned this, I made dinner, lit candles and waited. He was supposed to come over after his sister came home,...

Anonymous

(30-35)