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My (now ex) boyfriend and I dated for 18 months. It was a very serious relationship, we both loved each other dearly and wanted to one day marry but we are both quite insecure people. This ultimately led to the breakdown of the relationship 3/4 weeks ago. However, two weeks into the break-up, we decided we needed to sit down when I'm done with university exams and talk everything through so that we can potentially give things another go. When we spoke it was so lovely, we told each other how much we loved one another, how much we cared and that until we meet up and talk, we will stay committed.

He went to a work party last week, the night before my final exam, and said he'd be home at 11/11:30pm so that I wouldn't worry. We had been talking previously and it was all so positive, we were happy. I met up with him yesterday and he told me that he went home with a co-worker after the work party. They had sex but only for 30 seconds, he stopped it and went to sleep and at 5am he woke up to wish me luck on my exam while in the same bed as her. He also told me he went on two dates with girls from dating apps, one of the dates being two days after he had sex with his co-worker. He said nothing happened. I stuck to my word. I'm so in love with him that I couldn't even look at other guys. Does he not truly love me?

I told him my mum found out because I came home in tears and couldn't not say anything. Now he's blaming me that he had sex with that girl because the relationship made him so insecure and he won't be able to face my family. I said that I will forgive him and so will my mum, in time, if he fights for me and proves to me that he made a huge mistake but he'll do anything to be with me and make me smile. He replied saying he's tired of having to prove himself. He says I'm his dream woman so surely I'm worth the effort? Why is he backing out? It's so hard to let go because I love him more than anything. Am I an idiot for fighting for him and trying to make it work?

So, the other night me and the fiance were having a few beers. It had been a rough week so we were chilling, chatting, and somehow got onto the topic of celebs we find sexually attractive. We’re both open, not insecure and have never had a problem with the other finding other people attractive. Myself especially because my fiance is attracted to women who have “natural” or “regular” bodies, meaning he isn’t into instagram models or super fitnessy women. For a visual, I’m 5’, 110 lbs, 32C boobs. We were showing each other pics of celebs we found hot, and all of his were very “obtainable” types of low tier celebs, except for one. He showed me this one pornstar looking woman with tight abs and obviously fake breasts, which usually isn’t his type. According to him, she was just “something different” he enjoyed changing his visuals up with. Now, I had no right to be upset because I showed him pics of men much more in shape than he is and was ogling them pretty much lol. However, perhaps it was the beer or the hard week I had, but I got a little insecure and went to bed right after to avoid saying something. After I slept, I still felt a bit bothered until I realized how meaningless it was for him to find one really radically different woman attractive compared to myself, considering I was in the same boat. So, just tell me your thoughts? Has this happened to you? Am I nuts or do you think I really should have been upset?

Hopefully this will put the whole body hair question to bed , everyday this same person asks about his hairy body and every single day he cross questions the women who tell him he looks fine. Hopefully he will read this and take on board the comments and poll results and stop asking us what we think about his body hair and being combative towards the women on gag.

I talk with my ex these days. We broke up many months ago (basically he broke up with me because I am virgin and he told me he wants something casual for now. I really wanted to try things with him but he refused.) After our break up we tried to stay friends but I acted possessive and clingy when I learned he slept with a new woman. So we had big fight and stoped talking. Months passed and now I think he gave me another chance. We talk as friends but sometimes when he is with other women it bothers me. He never says about them but I know him well and I can tell when he sleeps with them. I still have feelings for him obviously. Usually he sleeps with them and after they leave we chat about random things. I know they are just sex. I know right now he doesn't want Some thing serious. But it breaks my heart that he never tried with me. We tried some things in bed at the beginning but I guess they weren' t as good as actual sex. Almost a year passed and I still think about him. Should I continue being his friend and know every time he sleeps with someone or it is better to leave but never talk again. I proposed to him to meet face to face he agreed but with his friends presense. I asked if we can meet alone he said we will see. If i will be normal and not act strange. He also told me these days that he sees me as a child because my thinking is childish and if it wasn't for that he wouldn't talk to me at all after how I was in the past. So I am a child now to him? He is 10 years older by the way but I don't think that's relevant cause the other girls he sleeps are little older than me. He has one woman now for sex but he searches for others. Basically he doesn'r want somwthing more and he knows i want more. That's all I can remember now
I hope you understood the situation. Thank you in advance for your help.😊If u could explain to me why he said this about me being a child I would appreciate 😊