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Things went (really) bad between me and this girl, now we’re talking through a middleman (school counselor). What I’m hoping to do is talk to her and make her feel better about the situation we are in and what she is accusing me of. I’d tell her what actually happened and hopefully she feels better. The conversation would be between me, her, and the counselor. She doesn’t have to accept the talk.

Option 1: Tomorrow. We’d send an email out around noon asking to meet her on a day of her choosing. However, tomorrow she turns 21 and is spending the day with friends. They’re probably against me, but the talk would be to answer the question she’s been worrying about. Whether her friends talk her into or out of it, I don't know.

Option 2: Thursday. We’d send out an e-mail. It’d be another regular school day for her and her friends won’t be around so the decision is entirely her’s.

I got accepted into Cal State University of Long Beach, and some other Cal states such as Northridge and East Bay, but I only got into 1 UC, Santa Barbara, I'm unsure where I'd like to go. Financial Aid wise, I'm unsure about Cal States, but Santa Barbara, is unofficially offering me enough for tuition and some other expenses (such as dorming) and I'd only have to pay $3,000 out of pocket. I'm unsure which to choose. Can anyone give me advice on how to choose or which school may be better?