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So I am always single. While I am only 24, I know I’m going to be alone forever. I rely on dating apps to meet people and we all know they suck. I’m told I’m cute and while I don’t think I’m ugly, I know I’m not attractive enough to attract guys like other women I’ve seen. I can never find someone that I find physically attractive. All the men I’ve spoken to via apps that are attractive either only want something casual, no connection or feelings are not mutual. I don’t really care to have sex but still, companionship would be nice. I mean women that are always single usually are able to find a partner in no time, the beautiful ones at least. If I was attractive, I would attract guys with no problem. I think I’m single due to poor fortune.

I am almost 25 and have no dating experience. I hear feedback either along the lines of being too picky or just having bad luck. Everyone says love finds you, so why hasn’t it found me? Don’t say that I’m still young because there are women who marry their high school sweetheart and stay together indefinitely.

I was chunky in my teens and have lost a good amount of weight, almost 80 lbs. I have maintained it for a year and do my best to look good. Yet, I’m never approached by guys. I don’t think I’m ugly and have been complimented throughout my life a few times. I feel like I’m doing wrong or men don’t find me attractive. Must I say, dating apps do not work for me.

I know a lot of men use it for sex but I hear a lot of relationships that have formed from them too. I meet women who dumb their ex boyfriends and these guys were wrapped around their fingers. I wish I had the power and control to have a man desire me that way.

When I do attract guys (rare rare occasions), it’s ugly guys. I know I’m no model or beauty queen but are decent looking men repulsed by me too? Oh, I don’t have any friends by the way.

I’ve seen young guys and older guys say this crap. Imagine how ugly and desperate you have to be as a person to need money to get someone to date you. You guys tell each other to get used for cash. Yet complain about gold diggers. Yet y’all complain about the divorce rate. Money only attracts gold diggers. It does not make the woman want the guy himself. Its literally the money that they want. They will date and do anyone. If you can’t get the women you want with a regular damn job, then obviously they don’t want you. Then when those type of women finally marry the guy, divorces his ass, and takes all his stuff, guys complain. Makes no sense. You guys don’t see women giving each other such stupid advice. Many guys are gold diggers who can be gotten with money as well. Yet we are not telling each other to be used for cash cause we are Not Dumb! There are lots of poor men with gfs and families. I’m sorry, guy or girl, if you need money to get someone of the opposite sex to date or fuck you, ya lame.

I don’t think I’m unapproachable. But I’ve pretty much been avoided by men for my entire existence. I’ve been told that I can come across as stuck up but I think my shyness is being misinterpreted. Every woman I know, EVERY single one has relationship experience. Like I cannot attract a man to save my life and don’t think I’m ugly. People say all the time that men are intimidated by women they’re attracted to. How true is this crap? Or are women saying that to feel better about themselves?