I'm 25M I hate my life cause I'm a virgin still who's never had a girlfriend I'm ugly fat and short and my life sucks cause hot women don't want me?

[smb3_1993]

I'm 25. I'm fat ugly amd short. never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin and no attractive women like me. I have a horrible life because women like Ria Ciuffo don't want me. All my friends have attractive girlfriends and wives i want their lives. My life sucks every girl i liked has rejected me and friendzoned me and everybody tells me my league is fat ugly girls even my dad told me date ugly fat girls so my life sucks if i lose weight and still can't attract a good looking woman then i wasted my time I don't want to lose a hundred pounds just to have to end up dating an unattractive woman still or a woman who is hardly plain looking or average and its like all i am gonna hear is this
"if you lose weight and don't get a hot girlfriend then I'm sorry but you gotta date the ugly ones and get use to it"

The girl i had feelings for in high school but who friendzoned me got married to a guy who cheated on her with a teacher She started dating him when me and her were seniors and he was a freshman he was caught sexting a teacher caught on the news and now the girl I want is marrying him and A TEACHER HERSELF

She would use me as the shoulder to cry on and then when she was done crying to me she would have me go away and then she would go back to him after I'm not saying it wasn't my own fault but to some degree I was used emotionally

and now everybody is happy that they're getting married it's like I'm living in the Twilight Zone that people forget that he cheated on her with the teacher and got caught on the news.

Then five years ago when my mom passed away everybody I knew gave me their condolences even people I didn't like but they still were decent enough to tell me their condolences all except her she didn't even give me a my condolences at the minimum despite her feeding me lies saying how me and her were such close good friends. I go to therapy partially for this experience.

[XtnicX]

Look you gotta change your outlook or no girl will ever date you and I mean that the most unattractive thing a guy can do is consistently talk about how their not good enough but look for the best.

Myself personally I’ve dated guys who most people considered 3s and 4s way below what I’ve dated and what I could date but they had stellar personalities and made me laugh why would I want to be with a 10 who is boring. But if you don’t have even a good outlook or personality going then what should we date you for?

It’s really not always about weight my boyfriend right now is what he himself considers fat and I don’t care bc I love him and his personality. But saying you won’t date someone who is “hardly plain looking” well sorry baby but I guess that’s how all these girls are looking at you bc you’ve brought nothing else to the table.

Don’t lose the weight and get a better optimistic personality!
Or
Lose the weight and stay a douchebag!

That’s how you get a date

[smb3_1993]

Be honest based off my profile pic what's your opinion of my looks

[XtnicX]

To be honest I’ve dated guys more attractive than you and ones uglier than you and I almost married the one uglier than you! So again it has nothing to do with looks for most girls.

[smb3_1993]

But if I'm not good looking then I'm stuck having to date unattractive women

[XtnicX]

So then by that logic it means I’m unattractive bc my ex was totally not good looking and he landed me?

[smb3_1993]

No I'm speaking about my personal experiences

[XtnicX]

What I’m saying is it doesn’t matter how unattractive you are if your personality and other attributes are good then you’ll end up with someone amazing. But you can’t see women as attractive or ugly if you’re expecting them to see you as anything else

[Fanme]

So you don't take care of your appearance at all but want a woman who takes care of her appearance?

And no, the girl from high school, it is not your fault at all. People get used, people get treated badly, it's not their fault it's the bad person's fault. All you can do is learn from the experience to try and prevent it happening again.

But anyway, the fact you're so focused on hot instead of good, even stating that you don't want an average girl, I think that says a lot about your personality and why you can't get girls.

I actually thought a lot of what you'd written was a joke, and you were doing an overboard impression of those incel forum type guys who act like you and wonder why nobody wants them. Only when I got to the end I realised it wasn't a joke. Sorry about your mum :(

[smb3_1993]

I get frustrated that if i lose 100 lbs the general advice I get is I'm gonna only best case scenario attract 4s 5s and 6s because of my looks

[Fanme]

Yeah, you might not even get them tbh. Not many women, even desperate ones, want to be with somebody with your attitude.

[elissa23Trans]

Stop the pity party. It won’t help your cause. Women don’t owe you an obligation to fall at your feet and worship you. Take your future in your own hands and stop drawning in self-pity. Lose weight, hit the gym, eat healthier, practice good hygiene ( very very important! ) and learn how to be more outgoing and more confident. Study something, be good at something. Look for a decent job and look for your own place. All these things are things you have within your own control. Right now your self-pity sounds like incel behavior. Very unattractive, that behavior. Do something about it. You are a grown man. You can’t expect a woman to offer herself to you just because you wrote a complaint that you never had a girlfriend. Women are not public goods that can be accessed by anyone who needs them.

[Trolloween]

I can't tell if this is real or satire. If it's real then your attitude is your number one problem not your looks, you're grading women's value based on their number out of ten you've decided to give them based on nothing but looks. You're such a hypocrite whining like a little bitch that girls dont find you attractive when that's the only thing you care about in them. Lose the weight, stay in therapy and try and see women as real people.

[Phanta]

Believe it or not, there are a million other men your age and much older who are virgins. Because of feminism the percentage of men who go without sex is only increasing. So hang in there with this common experience of yours.

[Ultimate_Gohan]

Women are not the only thing u want in life.

[JamesBoradil03]

you seem like a troll.