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Last week my friend invited me to the club for her birthday to celebrate. She had planned this a couple of months in advance, I was supposed to meet her in front of the club with her friends at 11 o clock. The morning of her bday, she calls me and tells me how excited she is to hangout and how she can’t wait to see me cause it’s been a while. I went shopping for a dress and everything. I had my mom drop me off at the club so I wouldn’t have to park and I’m there at 11, I texted her and she said she’s on the way, 10 minutes later while I’m still waiting outside in the cold she tells me she’s not coming anymore. Turns out she never left in the first place. She was partying somewhere else.

I met him half year ago from a dating app.
We hanged out Several times (mainly go hiking /dinner ) and then he confessed on our third date but I refused. I thought it’s too early , the feeling wasn’t there yet and he’s only 2years older than me I felt like I need someone mature and stable.

After refusing him , he started distance himself from me. I blocked him. ( I know it’s weird but that’s what I did to respond)

I unblocked him last month and we began to chat but yea it’s unlike how we used to.
Then recently we had sex.
The feeling has became stronger and I really like him.
I know I’m also not ready for a relationship (so does he) I’m okay to be his friends with benefits.
The thing is he distanced himself from me again.
The last time we met he told me it’s hard to like and love me because There’s so much responsibilities and things he can’t control (as I planned to work abroad after 1year ) he asked me why did I blocked him and how bad he felt when things didn’t go the way he thought.
he said he was optimistic half year ago when he first met me now he realized there’s a lot of things he can’t do because he’s poor he can’t offer. I told him not to worry too much I didn’t ask for anything , we’re ok to keep relationship like this. He said he doesn’t worth spending time on he said he’s not handsome , poor and so.

What really hurted me is he didn’t show up on my birthday as we promised. He said he has to work and even tried to act like he forgot my birthday.

I want him back but I feel like everything he did is pushing me away.
We stopped talking to each other for a week and I recently posted somethings that might make him thought I was seeing someone. I don’t want him to leave. What should I do?

So my niece is gonna turn 18 this 31st October, and both my niece & nephew (15yo) are staying at my place. Her mom & I decided we'll plan out a murder mystery B'day dinner party keeping in line with the Halloween theme.
Now the confusion remains who will be the dead victim, at the murder mystery? Who must die with a fake Knife plunged in their backs LOL?
We are confused because all the guests are male except my 16yo boy and my 15yo nephew. So confused if we should just bump off the boy (s) or bump off one of the 12 girls coming to the party.