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I am a feminist activist and I don't want to be a stupid woman that stay with a guy that treated me like piece of shit, disrespect me, don't give me any attention, or even abusive. But I don't get it why a woman stay with a guy that clearly hurt you and keep him cause I think it's so stupid no matter how much you love him. Being a strong woman doesn't mean you have to stay with a guy that treated you like shit. Leave him then you can called yourself a strong woman. Because a woman leaves a man for herself. Or with a guy that take advantage of me, clearly won't ever like me, just want have sex or treated me like I'm his fans just because I told him that I like him first. And I think there's still a lot of women out there that don't find themselves worth it.


Here's the truth guys, being pretty, honest, treating a man good, caring about a man, making an effort for a man is not gonna keep him. You could have the best intentions, the most sincere feelings, you could be a good woman, still not gonna keep a man. Because the only way to keep a man, if that man wants to be kept by you. They don't care how hard you try, you cannot force a man to be with you, you can't beg him, you can't love him enough to make him love you back. A man only fights for what he wants, don't hold onto a man who doesn't wanna held by you. It doesn't mean you gave up, it really means that he gave up on you. And it's YOU who should not waste anymore of your time, know when it's time to let go, know when to walk away and know when it's time for him to be unkept.


Girls, if there's one of you that still not become a strong woman, are you will be a strong woman after read my opinion and advice?

I have PTSD, panic attacks, anxiety, flashback and triggers. 2 years ago I was assaulted. In my childhood I was molested and raped more than once. I didn’t know it was wrong at the time. I kept on thinking why are all these things happening to me and then I knew why, it’s because I’m a girl. I can’t feel safe walking on the streets men are harassing me I feel afraid sometimes I might not reach home. Just like everyone I have dreams too, but I let all these abuse that happened to me belittle my value. I let myself believe I’m not smart enough to go to college, I’m not beautiful for nice clothing, I’m not fit for a better job and I let my self esteem go down so low that I don’t believe in myself anymore because of what people did to me I don’t have any other value other than to satisfy men even I don’t want to it’s the only thing I feel like I have value for. Because of this belief I fail in high school I work a low job which is very hard and I barely eat. Everyone betrayed me. I have no one. There’s no place for me. I just want to disappear but you know what I have another dream, I want to marry someone who will protect me. I have no one to protect me everyone blames me for my abuse saying I shouldn’t have went there. But I tried to fight him off but I couldn’t, he pinned me down and his hands were so big and he was so much stronger his body was on top of me I kept on saying no so many times it didn’t mean anything to him I was alone, powerless praying for it to be over. It was over but now I’m suffering and I’m trying to find ways to heal but I can’t 😭, my life is over, he damaged me. Everyone betrayed me I don’t have anyone I’m all alone. He ruined and destroyed plenty of my dreams and hope. Will anyone want to marry me? Can I live by myself? Or am I too unstable for my of that? Please be honest it’s okay ❤️