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In 7th grade I became friends with this boy and never had any feelings 4 him. Until a friend said he was cute which I disagreed to atm but I started paying a bit more attention to him & noticed that it seems like he likes me? (stares, teasing, smiles, body contact, talking, treating me diff, etc) I was in denial of my feelings for him at first but I soon gave in and now I find myself with a crush (maybe more) on him. Now, we’re in 8th grade and he’s in my classes again and he still acts like he likes me specifically. My friends were completely convinced he had strong feelings for me too. Until, the convo came up about who we like & he was guessing everyone in our class and then stopped and said “wait.. it better not be me” but he didn’t say it seriously and I couldn’t pass up this opportunity so I boldly said “but it is” and then he was smiling but said he only saw me as a “friend” and I should consider this as a rejection. After that I ofc said it was a joke and I didn’t like him. But he said he liked a girl in 7th grade, still does that was in our class and gave me hints with the # of letters in their name and the only people who matched up w that was me and this other popular taken girl who he knows nothing about. I guessed her and he said it was but doesn’t know why he likes her. .-. Anyway, this was surprising bc prior to that, his bff was telling me he likes me and “has feelings for me” but he said it was a joke but it also wasn’t? And after that guessing game mishap, a few days later his bff gets the chance to talk to me alone. And he took that whole time telling me more about my crush & giving me info I NEVER asked for + trying to like persuade me to like him and date him in a way. “Imagine if you were together” “give him a chance” are some quotes from that convo. It was confusing af because I never even brought him up, he did. (THE REST OF THE TEXT IS IN THE PHOTO SORRY I TALK TOO MUCH SO IT’S SO LONG LOL)

So my daughters are 18 and 20 years old. 20 year old isn’t going to college and just got fired from her last job because they eliminated the position about two weeks ago. The 18 year old isn’t going to college and got fired from her first job about a month ago. My husband and I work monday-Friday (7am-7pm). They both say they are applying to jobs and going on interviews (which not sure if I believe but I have no proof to say they aren’t other than no jobs). My husband and I are extremely busy during the week and it sucks that on our only two days off we have to come home and clean the entire house. They are two very capable girls that can clean around the house. They can shadow my husband and I and go from there. Their cars are always parked in our driveway. Since they have so much time to sit around the house the least they could do is help out and clean the whole downstairs and upstairs. In exchange I would give them money to go get groceries or spending money or whatever but only if it’s up to our expectations (they have no money for food). They both act like bratty dramatic 12 year olds. They are giving me an attitude and don’t want to do it but I can literally make them starve. It’s ridiculous they hide in their rooms on their phones all day while we clean on the weekends. I don’t think it’s too much to ask for an 18 and 20 year old that has nothing else to do to help clean around the house so my husband and I can actually have a day off. My husband thinks we should hire a maid and I think it’s ridiculous because our two daughters sit around this house doing nothing can help out or they can get out. My husband thinks I’m being harsh with that statement.

So my boyfriend has cheated on my in the beginning of our relationship. He was in another relationship and had sex with her. He also was asking other girls to be his girlfriend and made out with another girl while dating me. He had phone sex. I caught him and now he is changing his behavior. He went to therapy and gave me access to his accounts. The thing that worries me is now he isn’t putting any effort in the relationship. He won’t call me iniate any conversations first. Won’t fly out to see me because he’s saying he’s broke and doesn’t have the money. He doesn’t iniate anything sexual and he always has an excuse. He said he’s withdrawing because of how much I mistrust him. He did this to his ex girlfriend too. He said he did to her because he didn’t care and that he’s doing it to me because I’m mistreating him and making him feel like I’m going to abandon him. Should I trust by now or am I giving good reasons not to trust him?