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I have been dating my boyfriend for over two years and he is going off to college in a month or two. I’ve been scared about what is going to happen and he is so honest and I don’t want him saying nothing is going to happen tho. He also this summer got a job with his dad which is 6 to 4 and then he goes with his friends to play soccer or hang out. Then he comes back and he sends me a text every time he does something and says he’s charging his phone I want that I like that but it’s like 8 or 9 and he isn’t even able to talk long. Last night we played a couple video games and he got upset which made me angry cause I didn’t get to talk to him the whole day and I missed him. So the next thirty min of us actually talking was me telling him my anger is nothing and then saying it in the way I usually do which isn’t the best way for compromising and then he goes to bed. He’s in bed and I get upset and send snap messages about us and included me blaming him for everything and I got a text at six saying he is glad I finally said he wasn’t good enough like I don’t know what to do? Help please I love him but I don't know

So before I begin, here's a little bit about me. I'm a Christian girl. I don't do drugs or go to parties. I don't sleep around or believe in free sex. I drink occasionally but very rarely (like maybe once or twice a month). I'm in church every Sunday and when I'm not working or in church I'm either with friends or working out. I'm a veteran and My idea of a fun Saturday night is having dinner with girlfriends followed by a movie. Now because I'm a single woman looking for a relationship, I'm on dating apps: Christian mingle and OkCupid are the two that I was using , but I'm thinking about disabling my OkCupid account because I have a problem with that site that I don't have with Christian mingle: even though it states nothing promiscuous in my profile, I get so many messages from users on that site hinting towards sex. I put the same information on the profile that I provided here yet a common message that I get is "you look so sweet and innocent. Are u open to corruption?" One guy even saw the military uniform in one of my pictures and pointed out that I was probably great in bed. What do you all think? I seldom get offers like that from men irl unless they're drunk but on that site it seems to run rampant. Does being what some call sweet and innocent make a woman more attractive or is it the stigma about military women being promiscuous that attracts these creeps (I don't seem to get messages like that on mingle but that's not to say that I haven't gotten them there). What do you all think?

I’m 19 and he is 23. I workout an hour everyday, and I do cardio, and i am very worried about my look. I always hear that im pretty, and I’m not really superficial, because I am very in love with my boyfriend despite that I didn’t found him attractive when I meet him, but I fall in love with his personality. The problem is that he is very lazy, and very skinny. I noticed these days that he have a really good face feature and that if he gain weight and do workout with me, he will become very attractive, but he prefer spending his free time reading manga, watching anime, playing video games, and eating nothing else than pasta. I love watching anime too, but I also spend time for my apparence, I think it’s unfair that he doesn’t take care of his look, since I suffer everyday to stay attractive for him, because I know that he really like the fact that I’m pretty. I told him that I can too eat whatever I want and stay in my bed doing nothing else than watching anime no matter if i became ugly. It’s true that he is the main reason that I want to stay attractive, because he always complimente me about my look, and he like hearing from the others how lucky he is to date a sexy girl like me. look isn’t everything and I don’t ask him to be a model, but just to gain some weight! I just want him to eat something that will help him gain weight, and workout with me sometimes, so he will have muscles , because I think that gaining weight is a way easier than eating less food the way I do. Right?

So I posted about how the guy in question always jokes about dick: sometimes just in general, sometimes about his dick, or about me sucking dick or going to bed "on his cock," etc. I was unsure whether or not this was just him joking or if there was some ulterior motive to always mentioning it.

Therefore, I tested the waters, so-to-speak. Yesterday we ended up talking about him brushing against me. Here's a snippet of the convo.

Him: Eww

Me: That's what I said when you brushed against me. Yuck.

Him: When?

Me: You've done it on the bus and when we walk home.

Him: That's when I can't walk and that's because you so thicc that when we turn I just can't help it.

Me: Obviously. But only brushing against me doesn't do anything. xD

Him: But I don't mind those brushes.

Me: And brushes are all you're gonna go for? xD

Him: What do you want me to do, grab ur ass? I don't think so. (sends pic of chicken) Here have my nudes.

Me: I'm just giving you a hard time. And there's nothing to grab sooo.

Him: I'm sure there is.