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I am in my late twenties and never been in a real relationship. The one guy I did date, I felt like I had to settle because no one better came around. He was a decent person but I wasn’t physically attracted to him. I was always under the impression that my lack of attraction from guys was because of my weight.

A few years later, I’m still thick but definitely smaller than what I was before. I don’t have friends so I have to use the apps to meet people and as you’d assume it’s a disaster. I mean I’m told I’m cute, some say pretty etc but I just can’t find a man. The ones I was physically attracted to only want sex and the ones that pursue me have decent personalities but they’re too short for my preference or just not attractive to me.

I see women often that are average or maybe heavier than me, with guys I find good looking, and really wonder how they were able to find them. I feel if I settled with any of the guys I mentioned I attract, I will always feel bothered at the fact that I can’t get the kind of man I really want. So that’s why I stay single, it seems permanent considering I’m only getting older and told myself this would improve as the years go by.

Im asking all genders. Not limited to what you prefer in other people but also what you find ideal for yourself. I’m just curious what average preferences are. I’m not asking bc I’m worried or feel bad. Not even a recent pick.

THANK YOU 💞

I don’t think I’ll do a poll bc I’ll get crazy answers in both directions. I want to encourage it 😛

Most of you will know who I am, please keep it zipped 🤫

[which lighting is best]

I am in my mid twenties and never been in a real relationship. The one guy I did date, I felt like I had to settle because no one better came around. He was a decent person but I wasn’t physically attracted to him. I was always under the impression that my lack of attraction from guys was because of my weight.

A few years later, I’m still thick but definitely smaller than what I was before. I don’t have friends so I have to use the apps to meet people and as you’d assume it’s a disaster. I mean I’m told I’m cute, some say pretty etc but I just can’t find a man. The ones I was physically attracted to only want sex and the ones that pursue me have decent personalities but they’re too short for my preference or just not attractive to me.

I see women often that are average or maybe heavier than me, with guys I find good looking, and really wonder how they were able to find them. I feel if I settled with any of the guys I mentioned I attract, I will always feel bothered at the fact that I can’t get the kind of man I really want. So that’s why I stay single, it seems permanent considering I’m only getting older and told myself this would improve as the years go by.

I was curious about how hanging out with people impacts perception. Option F (riding alone) is kind of an out there option so feel free to say F and (another letter) if need be.

My preference: I'd say F and A. A guy that hangs out with the boys is attractive but it can also be a bit intimidating so I'd rather him be a lone rider slightly. I'm turned off if I see him with a girl and especially so if he's mostly with girls (psst... a ladies man).
Let me know your opinion!