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They have not met. was planning on introducing them next weekend. Now forget it. 😒

I was so caught off guard when he said that. It was not with a smirk or anything he seemed to think he was giving sage advice. The fact it is patronizing to me is the least of my concern -though it is no small concern.

Now I don’t know if he is just a closeted racist , sexist , bigot or ALL. None are ok. I can not think of any scenario where what he said Would be warranted.

I simply told him About my friend. He is helping me practice French bc I aim to visit distant relatives in France in the Spring. He is awesome I really enjoy his company and he is polite and kind and clever. Nothing in there says “Oof.. be careful you know how these people are”.

Also he is gay so if anyone thinks it’s jealousy.. He knows he is gay.

I can’t really see asking him

“ Why did you earn me to “ be careful” ?
🤔🤨

Bc he is black ; Gay; A guy; From a “ shit hole country” ( I don’t believe this clearly I’m illustrating what I suspect to be the type of attitude , that would compel a person to say what he said.)

My boyfriend has always been very considerate and kind. The worst I can say about him is his life has been un encumbered by any kind of major difficulty.

His parents are not Rich but his Great Aunt is a wealthy Philanthropist and she has always doted on him. She does not hide he is her favorite great nephew- They are close. She has always been very supportive of him.

But mostly this upbringing seems to make him relaxed and boyishly sweet -if sometimes ever so slightly spoiled or entitled. I don’t think this in itself should result in any kind of bigotry- unless you are already an asshole.😒

I am part Chinese part Russian he has never shown any issue with that. I’m Jewish on my fathers side. He on his Mothers. His parents are from Germany. He grew up in the states. I am rather close to his great Aunt.

Shocked. This is absolutely one thing I never thought would be an issue..

When this guy and I first started talking he told me he didn't want to be exclusive and that he wasn't looking for a relationship, but now I am starting to think he might be catching feelings.

Reasons:
- He FaceTimes me to tell me about his day or about something that happened to him.
- We haven't gone a single day without talking, we consistently send each other memes.
- He has taken me out to get food before and has asked me to run errands with him.
- We don't always have sex, sometimes he just orders us food and we eat and watch YouTube together till we fall asleep.
- I'm the only person he's seriously talking to/hooking up with.
- I sleep at his house more than I sleep at my dorm, I am literally with him all the time.
- He invited me to his frat party and literally held my hand the whole night, danced with me (in a cute way) he'd twirl me around and stuff and he kissed me in front of everyone every chance he got and introduced me to people. My friends said he was showing me off.
- He has introduced me to his friends and all his roommates know me.
- Talks about doing stuff together months from now
- He is just really sweet to me in general, kisses my forehead, head, cheek, etc. and holds me close while we sleep.

He still hasn't explicitly said anything, so I am just going to keep seeing where things go... What are your thoughts? Do guys do this in all casual hook up/talking situations? I really like him:/

I have been talking to this guy for almost 2 months, we went out a couple of times, we have stuff in common we say goodmorning/night every day, everything I look for in a guy. He tells me he misses being in a relationship, and how he would just get into a relationship just because. ( in the past) He tells me he would pay for everything when we go on dates. On the second date it seems like it was more quiet and we talked more about the same thing on the first date. We split the bill.

He has said this before but (he asked if he wanted to see how things go between us , told me he would delete the dating app and stop talking to another girl.) A few days later after our date he says whenever i'm comfortable to make things official/ wouldn't mind calling me his girlfriend. I just feel like he's rushing things to say he is in a relationship. He has told me he really likes me and i'm everything I could imagine and even more. I also don't know how I feel about him.