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I was visiting a friend in Paris (im american). The two of us went to the beach to go swimming. I was wearing a white bikini top and pink short bathing suit shorts. When I was getting out of the water, we saw her brother coming towards us. He was looking around with a bored expression until he saw us. He immediatly looked at me with this intimidating expression. I didn't know how to read it. He looked at me then looked at my chest. I felt self conscious because I don't usually sit out and tan... so my chest was pretty light. All three of us went into the water and a wave nearly knocked my top off. I made my friend help me fix it. Her brother watched and laughed which made me uncomfortable. I still didn't understand the look he gave me.- it was a little scary. It didn't know if he wanted to kill me or kiss me.
Guys: what do you think it was?

A day later, the family was going out to dinner. I put on a black dress (not skin tight). I walked down the stairs and nearly ran into him. He took a step back and have me the "up down" look, but he only did it when he thought I wasn't looking because my friend called me name.
I caught him like two other times watching me and giving me the weird intense expression.
If you were him, what would you be thinking?

I find that white people get indignant at the thought of this. Mainly white men.

I guess you *feel* it more if you're not white:
-Growing up and having relatives or friends actually pour honey into their dark brown eyes in hopes of making them lighter.
-Having friends buy skin lightening soaps, creams, lotions, etc.
-Seeing friends straighten their beautiful afros or extremely textured/kinky hair.
-Being told "you're pretty for a Mexican/black/Asian girl."
-Hearing people say "oh to find a white girl with a black girl booty".
-Seeing petty fights with the "#teamlightskin vs #teamdarkskin".
-Attractive black girls always being asked if they're mixed.
-Relatives being happy you're with a white person because they can pass "nice hair, nice eyes" or other "good genes".
-Having trends idolized if taken by white women yet shaming non white women for the same features/styles. (I'm on the fence on this one).
-Not seeing "dark" women/men in the media. (when they do show black/Latinos/Asians, they tend to be "white girls dipped in chocolate" or "whitewashed")
-In nearly all novelas, it's mostly white or very light skin Latinos. There's nothing wrong with that, but that's not the majority of Latinos. We can be very dark, tan, or very white. Also, when there are dark skin actors, they are often depicted as poor, unwanted, "ugly", mean, the antagonists.

This isn't meant to offend. It is becoming less and less of an issue, but it's still there. I know some of y'all will just roll your eyes at the mere title of this and say "shut up stupid ugly dark skin girl, face it. White women are superior". Or something like that. But I'd still like to hear y'alls thoughts. And non whites any similar experiences?

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