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Basically, I was dating this girl for a year and things were actually going really well. The only problem was that her parents were racist against someone of my ethnicity but we never let that get in the way. In fact it may of even made our relationship stronger. So basically we went to different colleges and she was starting to get depressed that we could never see each other. Meanwhile, there was a boy at her college that I could very easily tell was interested in her. She constantly assured me that she was not interested in him. Fast forwarding through my fall semester she ended up breaking up with me right after Thanksgiving and we didn't talk again until Christmas and she told me that she had sex with that guy and that she regretted it. Even though we broke up I was angry and stopped talking to her again. then like 4 months go by and we start talking again and i find out she had sex with him several more times.. she still claims never to have felt anything for him but she was just emotionally numb and didn't care about anything.. I know thats not an excuse for anyhing but I do seriously love this girl. The fact that she is pregnant is KILLING ME.. Especially since i've hated the dude since day one but I feel even worse without her in my life.. like emotionally dead.. and I didn't take her back but i assured her Id be here for her... and Im just not sure if its right.. I feel like if I truly love her I should be able to move pass this.. I believe she's putting the child up for adoption in order to return to school but.. Should I keep talking to her? or should I teach her a lesson and stop talking to her? I honestly dont know if im capable of just being friends with her either.. Its kina all or nothing in this case.. My honest opinion is that I love her and I want what we had back more than anything..

I'm a 22 year old Filipino dude born and raised in Miami. It's been hard throughout my life to even get a date although I'm making very slow progress. I've only been on 4 dates. It's a very materialistic city full of gorgeous Hispanic women that are a little out of my league and I tend to go for those girls lol. I prefer Hispanic women but I get nervous on what they might think about an interracial relationship even though I can pass as Hispanic looking. Women have many options here as well and tend to choose someone else over me. I'm decent looking and workout a lot. I've had some success but most of the time I fail and have to start again. Recently, I've showed clear interest in a couple girls and they all went on to choose a different man and it was very discouraging. It's mentally and sexually frustrating. My friends are all white. I like country, classic rock, football, basketball, drinking, smoking, and dive bars instead of clubs. I'm working with a min wage salary while I'm going to nursing school and honestly I DO want a relationship because I've never really been in a serious one. How should I change my approach? Any advice would be cool.