The black women that you consider way above your league are they dark in complexion? Because I'm confused you said you didn't like any race with tan or darker pigment. (It just so happens that no matter the shade of a black person , even if they are light, they are still a lot darker than whites ).
I don't think you are racist because you don't have extreme hate for a race.
You just simply aren't attracted.
You have a preference.
I think you are trying to be open minded but in your case, I don't think it will work.
Ex.
If I were only attracted to muscular guys.
And forced myself to be attracted to a non-fit guy.
I would probably create all sorts of problems in our relationship because I genuinely didn't like this person, and only wanted to go out with him to try to be different.
Sometimes you can't control what you like.
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Honestly sweet heart it's okay for you not to like black women your not racist for having a preference. It's your personal preference. Also it's not always that mixed children take on a dark skin many mixed children are actually very light or "high yellow" . But if that's not what you like than that's also perfectly fine :)
You are not racist , it is just your preference , if you want to like dark skinned female like black for example look up picture of some and try to find some traits you like about their appearance and personality (if you see one in person). :)
You're not being racist. You can't force attraction, and you admit that you find some black women attractive, just not many. There are racists that flat or refuse to consider dating outside their race, but that's not what you're doing.
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Yes, you're over thinking. Just because you aren't attracted to someone, it doesn't make you racist. Nobody cares who you date. You simply have a preference.
Well... I mean maybe its just your preference. Its not really racist that you don't find them attractive
That's not racism, it's called preferences. But, I don't think its a good idea to post it on here, some girls have low confidence of beauty in their race cause they see things like this.
You're overthinking shit. Just stop. Don't force attraction. Like who you like and accept it.
Just live your life? Black women really don't care, I can promise you that.
you must realise that being a racist is a stupid thing first of all...
You aren't racist. You just aren't attracted to them
That's not racism really, you're just not attracted to them because of the way they look. That's not like saying that you hate them at all.
I don't know dude. Im white and I'm not really attracted to any other race besides hispanic girls. I dont think that makes you racist its just what you prefer
You probably just can't handle the booty.
I wouldn't say ur racist it's just ur dating preferance
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