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Longtime guy friend.. brief intimacy a few years ago. He’d act weird when other guys were nice to me before he moved and a few times since then. He’s normally casual about relationships. Have visited a few times since he moved. Most recent visit he invited me to the lake and said bring my bikini. He sprayed lotion on my back.. rubbed my shoulders, neck/back and legs. He smacked my butt a couple times when I’d mentioned that the weight had gained has recently went there.. he said I know and smacked it. Weird part is that he said he liked friends with benefits but acting weird when other guys were nice to me didn’t make sense.. especially since he’s moved. The lake visit was nice but did leave me confused. It’s the first time he’d done anything public like that. Right after he moved he said we’re friends, I don’t know when I’ll see you.. and “if the benefits happen”.. I’m just hoping I didn’t misread the lake visit as flirt. When we were in the water he did splash me a couple times. Opinions appreciated 🙂

Traditional - In this category, men are much more likely to make the first move, while women are happy to sit back and wait for their knight in shining armor to come galloping along on their white horse. Okay, a girl can dream!

Sincere - This is by far the most common type of flirting. Seeing someone from across the room who takes your fancy and wanting to break the ice with them by complimenting their style or what newspaper they may be reading.

Playful- This method of flirting could be classified as the most controversial. People who use flirting as a tool, rather than actually engaging in flirting because they are interested in someone, fall into this category. For example, do you flirt to get your own way or to manipulate?

Polite - The least obvious and is loved by the quietly reserved and the introverted, shy people among us. There is a downside to being polite, though, and that is no one may even notice you are flirting with them!

Physical - Like to flirt without saying a single word? Or do you like to let your body do all the talking to grab the attention of that special someone you have your eye on? Only a skilled and confident individual can physically flirt.