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Now as you see in my pro i had to ask the question is it bad to be honest in a relationship to protect and help your partner.

How to explain it was just will be a long thing to rain I'm in a long-distance relationship with my man who I call Wolfy.

I love him so much and his friends are not the best people to be involved with us because they are so negative their users manipulators backstabbers and I have never done that to him and all I have done is be honest to him about some things that these people are when the time arrives.

The next issue of honesty is I'm honest with him about who he is and how he acts and behaves when he is inappropriate on when we have arguments. I mean what's the breaking up stuff like he's with me that he's not with me or he'll post on his social media that he's single women in fact he is with me but he broke up with me complication it's very hard and yes after everything you're going to read and it'll stay in your brain dump this guy.

But she is important to me and deep down I know that he is a very good man and he tries to change and he tries to show his best colors and I think with some of his friends so to say they're not really good people and they bring the worst out of him like insecurities past issues reminders it's it's hard to deal with sometimes.

But he's always telling me now like I need to stop being honest with him I need to lie.
I don't think I would be a good girlfriend or wife or friends or anything if I was not honest. I think that yes there are times to give Little White Lies like hey your cooking's good when in fact it's terrible or hey that sure looks good on you when you should set it on fire but when it comes to emotions and mental well-being and relationship issues I think it is a very good thing to be very honest.
I know I have made mistakes and I'm not the best girlfriend but I don't deserve to be dumped just because I'm honest

i currently just got out of a relationship.. yesterday. We have dated before and this was our 3rd time dating.. in all the occasions he was always the one breaking up with me.. he is a big flirt he likes the girls attention , he liked knowing girls liked him but i could honestly say he didn't cheat on me , he respected me. he texted me “we needa talk boo..” so i was like ok whats up even before he could tell me i texted again and asked “are you gonna break-up with me” he responded “yes kindaa.. i think its better if we stay as friends its not the right timing “ i responded “if thats what you want thats what you gone get” i didn't wanna seem desperate in any way when it truly hurt me. he says back to me “ im sorry thats just how i feel” i said “ did you loose feelings “ he said “ yes kinda...” i left him on seen and balled out for minutes, after i was done i decided to make sure i dont stay here crying for him for days , its summer and i needa get my shit together once i start school again bc thats another whole break down. i deleted all social media bc we all gotta admit that its a huge distraction, a whole bad influence, it makes you think a certain way because of what we see , i want to be fully stable mentally, emotionally and physically before i see a picture of my ex boyfriend. rn if i see a picture i will get all upset and start asking myself questions of what i do what could i have done , why why why ya know.. was it a good idea? i dont wanna look weak and i think im not looking weak i just need a break after him and i breaking up for the 3rd time and actually feeling and knowing it will be the last time. this whole school year i will be focusing on me , on my mental health, bc i’ve been through different break-ups this year , ex bestfriend, ex boyfriend *the one im talking about rn* , big huge fights w my parents, my parents discussing divorce.. etc, i really think i need time off social media. *ps i have imessage bc obviously*