I currently deleted ALL social media to make sure im in the right mind set after a break-up, does it make me weak? Or is there a different look?

[Anonymous]

i currently just got out of a relationship.. yesterday. We have dated before and this was our 3rd time dating.. in all the occasions he was always the one breaking up with me.. he is a big flirt he likes the girls attention , he liked knowing girls liked him but i could honestly say he didn't cheat on me , he respected me. he texted me “we needa talk boo..” so i was like ok whats up even before he could tell me i texted again and asked “are you gonna break-up with me” he responded “yes kindaa.. i think its better if we stay as friends its not the right timing “ i responded “if thats what you want thats what you gone get” i didn't wanna seem desperate in any way when it truly hurt me. he says back to me “ im sorry thats just how i feel” i said “ did you loose feelings “ he said “ yes kinda...” i left him on seen and balled out for minutes, after i was done i decided to make sure i dont stay here crying for him for days , its summer and i needa get my shit together once i start school again bc thats another whole break down. i deleted all social media bc we all gotta admit that its a huge distraction, a whole bad influence, it makes you think a certain way because of what we see , i want to be fully stable mentally, emotionally and physically before i see a picture of my ex boyfriend. rn if i see a picture i will get all upset and start asking myself questions of what i do what could i have done , why why why ya know.. was it a good idea? i dont wanna look weak and i think im not looking weak i just need a break after him and i breaking up for the 3rd time and actually feeling and knowing it will be the last time. this whole school year i will be focusing on me , on my mental health, bc i’ve been through different break-ups this year , ex bestfriend, ex boyfriend *the one im talking about rn* , big huge fights w my parents, my parents discussing divorce.. etc, i really think i need time off social media. *ps i have imessage bc obviously*

was it a good idea?

what were you thinking? no

[Guffrus]

Not sure where you even get the idea from that this is a weak thing to do, its the total opposite.

To me, this act shows that you are dignified, brave and wise.
You know what you need to do for yourself and you have done it on your own.
Kudos to you Miss, I hope that you are able to move on with your life and never look back or give that guy another chance again, he has had his time, its his loss now.
There are better men out there who will value the way in which you conduct yourself.
Try not to get too upset by your parents divorce, that is their relationship problem, not yours they will both still be your parents when the dust settles you are not on anyones side and you are not in the middle of anything, just let them get on with it and if they try to involve you, decline the invitation and insist they work it out between themselves, like adults.
You do not need any of those people, I am super fucking proud of you, dont ever stop being awesome. x

[Asker]

this made me cry. im glad you super fucking proud of me omg :( <3

[Asker]

☺️* i meant this emoji

[Guffrus]

Awww! Sweet pea x

Squeeze! xX

I have tears in my eyes now too :) hehe

You really can do it you know, I know you can x

[clampfan101]

If you didn’t delete anything related to your family and friends, it sounds like a probable action.