My ex fiance and I dated for 4 years. I proposed back in March at Disneyland where she said yes. Spent almost $15,000 on her helping pay bills, maintain her car, flowers every month or something equivalent and etc. while we were together. I always said I love you/complimented her. Although I will admit I may have fallen short in certain moments, but would try to make up for it. Her stance on breaking up was my attitude, not giving up enough/doing more to help and not considering her. My stance was that I wasn't enough and wanted counseling (normal for newly weds to be) where as she refused. Fate behold we broke up on the exact day of our 4 year anniversary. I don't know why I wasn't enough, but that's another topic. To my surprise I noticed she deleted me from all of her social media less than a month after breaking up. Is it normal to do that? I haven't deleted her because I look back on the 4 years with fond memories and don't like to erase people... sorry for the rambling post. She was my only relationship so just in a state of unknowing.