Is he cheating?

[SheSeesSeashells]

He finally just got back to his ex after long years apart, but he's flirting with me and wants to see me again. I won't!

Why he got back to her if he wants to cheat? Wasn't it easier to stay single?

He's 35

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that whole situation sounds sketchy as hell. A few red flags jump out:

- Getting back with his ex but still flirting/wanting to see you? Major cheating vibes.

- If he really wanted her back, why is he not fully committing? Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too.

- At 35 he should know better than to play these games. Makes me think he's just not ready to settle down.

- Getting back with the ex could just be a cover so he doesn't have to be alone. But clearly he still wants to mess around.

I'd be willing to bet money he's already cheating or will cheat soon, if he isn't already. These dudes never change, trust. You deserve way better than some cheater's sloppy seconds!

Drop his ass pronto sis. You can do so much better than being "the other woman." Find someone who respects you enough to be faithful and honest with their feelings. You don't need this mess!

[molonski2]

Kind of sounds like you want to go back though , but yeah , he's a player for sure , it will not be just you..

[NYCQuestions1976]

He's probably thinking that the more sex options he has, the better.

[jahaims]

Immature to even be talking to someone like that

[Anonymous]

First love can not forget

[Iron_Man]

Maybe so

[the_phoenix9]

Men are dogs